Resolutions for 2013.

Iwas thinking hard  what should be my new year resolutions.   then I thought nothing much. keep it very short and simple. because every year we take time and waste enerry in passing resolutions and we ourselves break it. what use. just written records.

so this year it is different. I Resolute to myself   no -ves . no- ve thoughts, talks or actions. try to turn everything into +ves. that is the first and formost resolution.

then comes second. we know thatthe world i changing and so the people. so let me also change a bit for the world. +vely. family first  . each and every moment available should be used to teach children thebasic principles and aims of human life.Academic success is not the end goal;sharing. loving and do something for the betterment of the humanity which is missing now a days. one more thing which i willtry my level bst and willbe conscious is not talking bd about others...Let God make 2013 a wonderul year for all. Let the whole world enjoy and be happy.Let the whole world expereince immense peace, and good health.This is my prayer and an earnest request to God. please give awareness to those who commit so much of crimes, cheating people selling own childrenand doing everything to earn money. please make them aware of thier mistakes and help them refrain from it. that is\would be the greatest gift to humanity. Drug abuse by youngsters and people killing people for just a penny shocks me. how could one do this ? Let us hope people to change for the good and make the world a better place to live and let live.

Books are the best friends.

Yes i do believe strongly that books are the best freinds one could ever have.,though they dont walk or talk..We can count on them,confide on them,surely. They silently provide a strong shoulder to lean on,How? when you are dejected,disappointed on the verge of breaking down, you read a good, motivating book you muster courage,morale is up,ur back into track,bouncing higher from sinking level.,that too self imposed,induced courage and confidence.Now agree?

Yes my belief becomes stronger. Books do change us good books have lots of good influence.like good freinds,on us.They teach us to dream,to correct ourselves, to care to know the value and also to empathaise    I get deeplymoved by books which really helps u to bounce back. good books always lure me/seduce me.The erudition i get. I go to pensive moodwith books.Though we cant appraise the value or  quality of the books they are worth their weight in gold.when I start reading books,the inquisitiveness keeps me away from the world.But wish to have that pacidity.I always welcome good books with unfeigned joy. I was awe struck by the grandeur of wisdom of some authors,yogis.their indepth knowledge, thier sea of ideas to change the lives of people.,>the joy of reading their  cannot be overted.
so the bottom line of my thoughts .is that books are the best and the great freinds. they will never leave you or cheat you. but be always with you at your dis[posal always. hats off to you good authors and books. enough for today.

philosophy of life

Today iam in a Philosophical mood. Whatever, let me put the thoughts  into words.

Iwas thinking about re incarnation and karma. How far it is true in our own lives.According to the karma theory the soul reaches the higher heights after struggling through a series of births and deaths.we know that just like any other  p hysical laws law of karma and transmigration of souls also operates of cause and effect.but whther you believe it or not, it truelly has a very good effect on human beings beze it really creats a fear in them which in a way prevents them from doing bad things or at least they think twice before  cheating others.as I remembered long back an English author Paul Brunton said doctrine of karma should be thougnt to the westerners, for their survival It would definitely help the individual to apply self control and restraint

Those whose\account is being accumulated with sins should at least take a pause.We all agree what we are today is the results of our thoughts yesterday. What we will be tomorrow definitely.the the result of our thoughts today.THOUGHTS  determine and shape our destiny.so it is clear If our thoughts are good goodness willfollow if not good then of course the –ves  .as we sow so shall we reap.      

I have watched many people,s lives, if you are good at heart and do no harm to tothers ,even the adversitywill trun good to youand you learn lessons and  move forward and onward. But if you by deeds or by  words harm others. However much wealthy you may be you cant enjoy a peaceful living. Then which is good.?  For me peaceof mind and happiness is everything and the most important asset in our life. 

It is the greed and the jealousy which creats many problems.

People  with even diamonds are not happy. They never count their blessings ,rather complaint and lament on the things they d ont have.tha tis the root cause of  unhappiness.

The world is giving us toomuch. Still we have complaints.we are much fortunate than our fellowmen but still complaints, grievances..so the contentment is needed.

What message I want to pass. First one we are responsible fir what we arel;good or bad.

Second messagewe should try to control ourgreed and should have contentment in life. Of  course that doesn’t mean s\you shoundt be ambitious. Yes you should be but not by any means . Lower your bellied expectations.moneymaking is not at allbad. but the way we choose should be good.

People forget the phrase  EXPECT FOR THE BEST AND PREPARE FOR THE WORST.

THEY remember and do EXPECT FOR THE BEST PREPARE  THE WORST MEANS WITHOUT MUCH EFFORTS WANT TO GET EVERYTHNG. the bottom line is before doign anything we should thing twice whther it willharm anyone or bring unhappiness to pain to anyone.. i tell muchildren everyday. see how people are makign money all chemicals, rotten food,bycheating and ll. do you thing this will earnthem goodthings. never. they mightmake some money but that also willbe spent in treatment or bad habits,. so never ever make money by cheating or falso means. do hard work and earn and enjoy healthy and happy life.it willgive you more satisfaction.

Philosophical mood is dissolving. Before it melts completely let me finish. something new tomorrow.

world has changed so much in these 2  to 3 years and i remained so busy that i even forgot to write something in my blog. everything was so sudden  , that i didnt get time to think what is happening.ONE THING I STORNGLY BELIEVE, IF YOU WISH FROM \HEART AND HAVE THAT BURNING DESIRE TO ACHEIVE  , IT WILLBE YOURS NO DOUBT,PROVIDED YOU R READY TO PUT IN YOUR EFFORTS. Gods blessings..yes so much of changes in last one year I started working as PD faculty for Eurotec, first time doing continous classes. coming down to students level and teaching is something very thrilling. making the toughest philosophies in simple language was thegreatest challenge., but I think I have succeded in that. anyways it is allnew new expreiences for me. so busy life has become and so challenging balancing between work and home and all, trying to jsutify each post and trying to be dutiful was  really a herculean task. but have immense satisfaction there was no much faults tilldate.
suddenly the course of life  took another turn. allmy sleeping insticnt and desire got wings and i gave them c olour and energy and they started showing results. my wish to study and get degree PG in psychology. i joined Bharathiyr for that simultaneously I joined a course in St,Teresa's for counselling.. I was thinking there is a cause behind everything. allthese years I read many many books on philosophy and psychology but why didnt I felt of taking degrees. I could have got many PGs I could have added many feathers to my cap. but why Dint I?. no anwer.everything has a right time.Iam forced to believe that.
I really hope and believe I will do justice to myself and others. God bless me give me  strength     to  play my role safe .enough for today. a lot to put into words but  feeling so sleepy....

story of a mother

A mother is the proxy of God on earth, like God she forgives an forgts all bad and hruts and keep record of
all the good things we do, she is like the locker where we can keep our worries and hurts, and she is like the cushion where we relax keepiong all our worries aside.
she isthe one who does not
need eyes to see she sees with her heart and feels with her
love.
she is synonym of sacrifice and love . she lives many lives.
first as a dughter she obeys and lvoes her parents and do things for their happiness and wantto be known
as their proud daughter
then she becomes a wife of a strnger there she forgets her own home and builds her nest with lvoe sacrifice and duty.
soon she become s an inevitable part of that house and makes it a home with her lvoe and care. she spends days and nights for building her nest stronger and safer.
soon she becomes amother in herslef. and forgets the whole world.
jsut lives for the chidlren. day and night thinking of the children worrys about their health first then studies and then character
beze hr world revolves around the chidlren and their father and whever uis asscoiated with them. just like a cnadle gives light to everyone adn wardoff darkeness but doesnt know she is melting herself aways.
yes this is the real mther. yes of course there may be expcetions in this field also. but mostly mothers r like this.
where the girl who used tos pend hours takingcare of her skin and hair forgetseven combingthe hair and putting cream to her dry skin.
everything has eben changed including the world she is in. the way she thinks. day in and day out her thoughts obssessed with her children and their father.
but haveanyone ever thought what shegets in return hurting feelings. hurts from children
blamings from husbands and relatives for spoiling chidlren and not taking care of them
whre gone her sacrifices and sleeplessights and what she has earned is health problmes and so many hurts in side her heart..
this is not a story it is the reality.
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poor mothers. God told the child who is to be born when the child asked God who will takecare of me on earth. there willbe an angel on the earth who willtalk to you who willteach youeverythign and even sing and dance for you and protect you from allevils, even risking her own life
and you will learn everyhting ina lovalbe manner and the angel is none other than the simple named great lady "mother"
this is dedicated to all good mothers who build tomorrow and those mother who already contirbuted a lo t to this world. and a wrnign to allthose mothers who are an insult to motherhood. and remind them it is not late even now they can be chaged inot good,. OR THEY WILL BREAK THE WORLD INSTEAD OF MAKING IT .

my new year Rosolution

New year Resolution
It is quite a long time since i have written in my blog. what is the exact reason i dont know it is mere laziness or sothing. hard to specify.
when it is coming tothe end of one year and the beginning of another we all think of resolutions, to better ourselves, to have a better tomorrow more peaceful and properous.
every year I used to take resolutions. but how far i implemnt them i dont know. but since it is a practice this time also iam thinking whaht to take.
i jus twas wondering when i read the newspaper everyday 75% of th news r of robbery, attack. killing accidents and and above all the misdoings of politicians and the police., i man to say those who has power in their hands.
our society has shrrunk to a level;where few years back we had dared to imagine. thatmuch corruption and bad things all around us.
I know i cant change the world. but i always remebr when we feel wecant change our world or people around us we candefinetely try totchange oruselves.


where should be the change next question whther it is to change myself for the betterment of myself and my family or it should be of a bigger horizon.
anyway i honestl;y pray God to help me take resolution which changes me for the good of everyone.
so here i take a resolution 1. I WILL MAKE MONEY BY HARDWORK BUT NEVER BY ANY BAD OR ILLEGAL MEANS.
2.I WILL TRY TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY BUT I NEVR WILL TRY TO MAKE MYSELF HAPPY AT THE COST OF OTHERS HAPPINESS.

3. LET THE WHOLE WORLD BE LIKE WHAT MAY , TO ME. BUT I WILL NEVER KEEP ANY HARD FEELINGS TOWARDS ANYONE. LET THE WHOLE WORLD HATE ME I WILLNEVER HATE ANYONE.IF POSSIBLE TRY TO LOVE EVERYONE .

4. I WILLTRY TO LIVE A SIMPLE LIFE.

AND ABOVE ALL I DEDICATE MY REST OF LIFE TO MY FAMILY FIRST THEN MY CLOSE RELATIVES AND FREINDS. AND WHATEVER LITTLE I COULD DO TO THE WOLRD I WILLNEVER HESITATE TO DO.
IT STARTS FROM THE SMALLEST LEVEL OF NEIGBOUR TO THE STANGER WHO I MEET ON THEROAD.

THESE R MY resolutions. and i know some of them i really practicing all these years. i never ever madeanyoney by illegal or any bad means. i never grabbed or cheated anyone in my life.I always tried to love everyone. i never hated everyone. but still you can always becoem a better person.

SO HERE I HONESTLY AND FROM MY HEART OF HEART PRAY GOD TO MAKE EACH PERSON A BETTER PERSON AND TRY TO MAKE THIS WORLD A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE ON.
how could people jus thinkof theselves and make money by killing, grabbing,.c heating and hood winking the public. how could people be so selfih and jus tthink aboutheir family and children. how could people be so cruel. who do adulteration even in life savign medicines, who add dreadly things to even baby food. how could people be so cruel do terrorisem. why theydont fear the Nature.
at least i wish God has gien them some sense to think WHATEVER GOES OUT WILL COME BACK BUTIN MANY OFLDS.
ATLEAST LET US NOT FORGET THIS RULE OF NATURE.



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Meaning of prayer.

. this article is the quint essense of what i haveread expereincned and listend to great people.i jsut tried to put them into my won words and my own language.

what is the meaning of charity, prayer and blesiing.
we all have different defintions onthe above subjestcs, but have we ever tried to know the real meanings or definitons of the same. no. beze we always think we are correct and right in ourbelifs/ but the more you gt to know the more you hear fromthe
great souls we cometo knw our beleifs r utterly wrong. yes
it took years to know the truth but why I write here it is alwayswe should learn from others mistkes or expreinces than wwe mke them and learn. wise people learn from others mistakes. fool jsut repeat it and learn
too often we only pray when we need somthing very badly or when we face danger or problmes in life.some people say my prayers are not answered. it is ,the answer may be no as good as yes. dont expect always yes fromGod. a child may be so happy to see the glittering or fire. but we are not so un kind to allow the child to play with fire.same way.God kows what is good or bad for us.God doesn or does not live in temples. but onething is sure he lives inthe hearts of good people. so when you hurt good people you hurt God directly. and when you give love to all,you please HIM like anything. and one thing is very very important every small deed should be thanked. GRATITUDE IS THE MARK OF HEART.
The word prayer or praarthanaa (in Sanskrit) is derived from two words ‘pra’ and ‘artha’ meaning pleading fervently. In other words, it is asking God for something with intense yearning.
people say there should be particular time for praying . but nothing whuile we do work , walk, cook, office evrywhere we jsut feel a little of Him it is prayer that means we make God our constant companion. always have the feeling is somebodywatches us all the time will definetnely help us to refrain from bad things..some people say i willdo this or give this if iget this i willdo this pooja if i get this etc etcit is tht they just treat God as a businees agent. if you dothat God willhelp you,. utter non sense. he is there in every little act of you. theway you talk, behave, give a cup of tea or speak softly. everything is Godly..

then what is the real meaning of thiem.yesiI may notbe 100% correct but iam not at all wrong. see the knweldge which i got from books, life, and listenig to great swamijees, all make me
define these as follows.
Let us start with charity. what is real charity. christians tell it is pure love of christ is charity. that is seeing God in evertyhing andevrywhere is charity.
and what Bhagavat Geetha ssays. realcharity is"Charity given out of duty, without expectation of return, at the proper time and place, and to a worthy person is considered to be in the mode of goodness. real goodness of charity comes where we sacrifice for our fellow beings,reaching out to some one when they r in need,
wiping tears formthe lvoed ones. giving soem thing to the undeserved is utter ignorance. which we many times perform. irgnoring the real deserving and reaching outto those who have alrady a lot is utter igonorance.not knowing what to do when to do and whom to do is utter ginorance. and forgetting ones duty is the worst thing one can perform and his/her prayers willnever reach to God. these are the words of great souls.
so we allhve certain duties to everyone we meet in life it starts right from the parents to those who does somthing to us, lvoe us, and to our neighbours, our fellowpeoople, collegues to the man who we meet on the road.how can we be dutiful tt the man we meet onthe road. but not being trouble some to him. it strts right from the way we walk, we park our vehicles and the way we keep ourselves cleanthe list goes on and on.
thegreatest giftwe can give to one is not to hurt him/her and if possible give a mometn of happiness to him.it is the greatest charity.if our presence makes someone happy it is a charity if we treat those whocome to ourplace with lvoe and devtion it is charity. if we reach out to somebody in trouble letthe person be a king. it is charity mnany people think giving some of their money to the poor is charity. and just ignoring lots of thing which they can do to wipe off the tears from their own loved ones some people give big big speeches of goodthings they do and i have seen them even not fulfilling a smalls childs smallest needs.they are numb to others feelings.
nw wht is paryers. people think just singing Gods praises is paryer. utterely worng. i have seen people who jsut cook inthe mrnign keep everything ready there cool, and goto temple to listen to gita or to pray thinks they willget moksha and punyam. utterly worng. God is in thehappiness of our family and children and performng our duty inthe right way. it starts right from serrving food hot and clean to our own chidlren and family and doing our duties in a most
dutiful manner that r the real prayers. i have seenpeople keeping alltheir cleaning duties and keep the house in ames and goto temples for prayers thinking God will bless. the real prayers toGod is to do your duty clean the house whee the real God lives. the real God lives in your HEART OF HEARTS. and the real prpayers to him and gift to him is not the paryers which you sing or give expecting in return you andyour familys good health and lto of money or a prmotion or any materil thing.etc etc.
thereal prayers is doing your duty as a son, husband, father, nmothr, daughetr, and good realtive, freind or neighbour.and of course above all a real Guest. whoevr comes to our house to be treated as God. ATHITHI DEVO BHAVA. but many of US treat them a menace.I have
seen people thegreat ones who beleive that giving prayers is the best gifit toGod i ahveseen them while giving prayers for hours if somebody comes they just make them sit and wait for them till their prayers end . see no God willaccept yoru prayers if you really trouble your guest sitting there wiating for you impateintly tillyou finish your prayers,. real prayers are you stop your prayer and come and attend the guest if he is wiling let him wait or let him go and then continue your prayers.
[Intercession( meaning feelings for others) and thanks giving the true language of prayers.
people are surrounded by utter selfishness, my wife my chidlren nothing comes aboe

that. so some one comes to our house they treat their life has gone they r distuba
nces,. ..how can such peoples prayers reach God. I have seen people who take bath inthe early morning go to temple and prayfor a long time. it is diefinetely good. but most of thm i hve watched are not people who do good. theycheat people to make money. DOthey go to temple to cleanse their sin evryday are they take God as their saviour for their sins. of course going to temple everyday and todo more crimes.
who is a true baktha who seeks God ineverything who who does his maximum to keep everyone atleat those who are related and nearto him to be happy , do theor dury with a thankful attitude to God.
People might ask questions am I belong tothis group who does things exactly the way it should be. No. a BIg No. iam not a pure soul but i try to be a different person, a betterperson in the mass. whogive value to my own consiucous than anything else.i have seen people spending lakks on God the same pwople when approached by poor or needy shut their door. what is the use of their prayers.who blind themselves no tos ee that their loved ones r in trouble and insted ofreaching out to them goto God and spend there. lakh so
what is thereal prayer, charity and duty it is a fine mixture of everything. when i was inbed one of my freinds who was in real needn of money. i just accumulated the money which was given for my extra needs means juices. any outside food etc ijust gave it to myfrind who was in real need of money to pay her daughters fees and give milk to them. i stillhve that satisfaction. i belive itwas my prayer, charity and duty. when she was in search of job and had to spend a lot to get one i just postponed my renovation work for another year andgave that money to her to help her
toseek a job. i as a freind,it was my duty to reach out to her at tht time.
my wokr got delyed just one more year. i stillhave thesatisfaction that i helped somebody in need and that was my prayer, duty and charity though nobody knows it is we both know about that.
i know there may be people who laugh or make fun ,mock at me wrting this. i dont mind what makes me feeling good is that i am wrting the truth whoch anyone beleives or not remains the truth. and it reminds me again again to follow the right way. which iam trying hard to, still away from it. giving shelter to someone when needed, giving food to somone let it be a king but hungry .,.is a duty, charity and prayer.giving little happiness to anyone, reaching for little help to someone when needed is the greatest prayer..everyday even for small mercies like saving us from our dishes being overcooked or burnt i thank God, for saving me from a fall, i thnk god, for each day each breath i thnk God if we do likethat we are more closer to God than who goes to temple pray for hours and after that jut indluge in spoiling someones happiness or gossipsing, or making money by cheating the public.

how many of us ask ourselves how thank ful i should be to others those who r there to help us guide us to whtevr we aretoday. instead we ithink how thnkful shuld othrs to be to us.we are in a hurry to highlight others mistakes and areready to advice .i repeat iam ot a perfect one who jsut folows this. but sincerely want to follow the path of righteousness. each wordbefore sepaking we should think not to hurt others.
the most valid thngs inthe world is peace of mind andhappinesswhich cannotbe bought by coreers. but can be bought by simple smiles or simple sweet words. but we neverever have the right to spoil anyones mood by speaking harsh words. in this selfish world everywhere conditions apply. husband says if only youlook after me. wife says if only you looklafter me and my chidlren, and chidlren says whyshould we look after you? world has become selfish. i ahveseen earlier we used to get up when a n old lady or man comes inthe bus we used to get
up and give theseat to him. but today who bothers.a man whogets up give seat tothe old man or lady is the person who is doing thereal prayer than the one who sits thereand says i am doing my mantras and prayers dont discturb me icant getup.definetely his prayers are not going to reach the God.the manwho is so contented with what he has is the real riches than the one who hs crores but still unhappy and dissatisfied.

THESE ARE AS I SAID ARE THE COLLECTION OF IDEAS FROM VARIOUS SOURCES, THE BOOKS WHICH IREAD, SOPEECHES I HEARD AND known.

THAMASORMA JYOTHIRGAMAYA
ASATHOMA SATHGAMAYA
MRITHYOMA AMRITHAMGAMAYA.


LET THE DARKENSS FOF OUR HEART BE FILELD WITH LIGHT OF GOOD THOUGHTS AND DEEDS
LET THE DISHOSENTY PAVE WAY TO HONESTY AND SINCE RE LOVE, LET THE BAD KILLING ACTIONS BE TURN INTO LIFE GIVING ONES.
AND LET THE GOD SHOWS US THE RIGHT PATH AND GUIDE US TO GOODTHINGS.SO THAT WE MAKE OUR LIVING WORTH LVING FOR US AND ALLTHOSE WHO ARE CONNECTED TO US.