My defintion of life and understandings

My definition of life and self understanding.

it is quiet a long time since i have written something in my blog. so ithougt today my first prefrence is to my self i mean to my blog.
i always wonder whther life is precious or not.and how we can have life in life. the life wht i mean is notmere survival or existence to live it fully fruitfully.
life it happens only if we take the inititative. and it improves when we take our lives into our hands than living upto others expectations.

if making our life a better one it is our goal then it is neither too easy notr difficult it is noteasily attainable nor elusive. it is easy provided we ready to put in efforts.
oppertunity is nothing but a chance life gives us many times to change ourselves, our dreams, our characters the way we live andsee thingstochange our health o ur personality etc etc.
first we have to take the firststep it is always verydifficult to take the firststep once you take the 1st step the second and third just follows.
e when i just get carreid away with my problmes or worries and too much obseessed withthem iam confining my vision to my own self.
when i feel oppressed i used to tell myself. How many other woman hve had the chances to live the life which i had?how many of them have exereiced the things which i have expreinced? may be soem good some bad. but all those have made me abeter
person mor tough mor eunderstadning more emotional maturity? sself udnerstadign and applying empathy ahve helped me to love people with more sincerity my love goes more cosmic then jut confine to my own family. it is all godo thaht happendned to me.these all made me deeply understand the vlues of life
what made me a better person inside. see ourlife teh trick is to play them very well.

self understddning is the firststep to anykind of successful Goal.which we call "emotional maturity' it is a learning process and intellectual and emotional sequence of growth. actually almost everythig we in ourday today life invloves learning of some kind.if theleanring is not followed by udnertanding
then we can never change.frist we hve to accept ourselves respect ourselves,t ehn we can accept and respect others.if we just change our behoaviour and not feelings then basically we willnever change. the change should come from deep within. and so naturally that we without our consccious doesnthigns so automatically
we encountr difficulties when we try to change the modes of conduct.
we learned in chidlhood theyseems right to us. some people find it verydifficult to change themselves nomatter the whole world tell them or all logic tells them.the more importannt our behavviour appears to us the more sturrgle we have to change our behaviour.
self understadning is liike swimming in the cold water. first you put toe and say it is cold and we go back to dry place but some continue teheir journey inspite of cold or all unfavourable conditions. they succeed in life/an it give them greter happiness and satisfaction in life.
it really involves some risk, some frustration andsome discomfort.
but once you reach the destination or achieve the goal no looking back.
we have illogical logic to support that we are right. and what we are today very muchrelated to wht we were and howwere in thepast.
but understanding ourselves is ofeten condtioned upon our ability to find such keys in the past which explain our behaviour today.the fears bad experiences gve us so much fear that inside we always fear its recurrence. the need nfor self realisation is very much needed.and the - ve emotions we all develop is anxiety
which really kills oureffciency nd creativity. see we human beinga have social responsibilites familyresponsibilitea and we have responsibilites towards us alo.
we have to give each a share. of our time and energy.
when we say people do notlike us. acrtually we dont like the people.
if we change we cansee people love us and we love people,.

and see i have nticed in any theway we react or behve to our children or spouses r very much influenced by theway we grew.it is often influenced by ourparents .


now iam concluding and i know it is not completed and i willcome out with more points very soon.