the one word remedy for our problems

Iwas thinking so hard whatmakes people so disappointed and unhappy in life. . My search ended at the word
expectations. what i mean the root cause of worry is toomuch expectations fromthe othe r end. I will tell you how. let us start from ourchildren. when they r small they expect their parentns to meet alltheir needs and we parents r very much ready to fulfill their needs.
so it becomes their habit that whatever they want ,I Mean their needs r met immediately. they gradually develp the habit of instant gratification of the needs. they grow up slowly we start saying no to them. the bad drinks in the cans, the cheetos inthe pckets, the bubble gums suddenly they become frustatred their expectations of their parents lowering they. they use defence weapons like crying stubborness and readily parentns who wants to avoid conflicts again start meeting their needs. when they grow up they want to gofor
mid night partieis with frie nds ,. tours,. ects. that we cannot allow abig no. theybecome frastrated. there start conflicts, then demand for a two wheeler parents fearing safety says no. then sarts war a. cold war a gap develps between parents andchildren. which can be dangerous in many cases.this is chidlrens expectation and disappointment with parents.
Now parents expcetaion from chidlren. whenthey r young they want just the parents company  . they r happy withthem.once theygrow they prefer to be with their peer group. againparents feel chidlren r not obeying the thigns they tell to them. they dont do things the way they wanted their children to do. always rememebr children will do what we dothan what we say.once theyget a job theyfeel indepndent and start spending ontheir needs., without parents consent. here the parent who wanted his child tobevery obedient to him gets a shock. the shock becomes even worse when the child gets married and gives attention more tohis wife and some will go
to the extend of totally hanging aroundthe wife and neglecting their parents. prents so much dispoointments and frstration see the wife as an enem,ywe girls or boys bebfore marriage may have so manyexpectations regarding .ourpartner. but we shol;dnt forget the other alsohahve about us. and both r from entirely different situations so expetitng toomuch and getting nothing is hazardous. better we lower our expectation and accept or try to accept the other as he/ she is. we should keep in mind when we marry we r not binding to one person we r binding to their family both may have their dear ones to betaken care of.we should be ready to share some of love and careto thenm also. afer life is to give and take. inow before marriage everybody has dreams and so mch expectation from the wouldbe. the girl expects the husband to be like the filmy hero and hang around her and give full attention to her. she wishes him to bring gifts evry evening and takeher out the list goes on. the boy expects his wife to belike the actress and
wish her to meet all his needs. as,if he has brought some GLORIFIED AYA. stand in thegate with brave smile when he returns and keep ready coffee and the list goes on and she has tolook aftr evrything along with her work. bellied expectations if not fulfilled ripples statrs appearing in the relationships ego clashes disppointments can lead to many serious problmes. his wife is not an actress or neither he a hero . what happenns in fantasycannot happen in life. or reality. liife or real life is nota flim. we have to accept the othehr as he / she is. the other may not reciprocate theway we want them to be/ sometimes it hurts upto core when our loved ones dont give it back to us. so thehreis only oneremedy we should not expectthem to give it back to us.

another category we do evrything for our friedns and lvoed ones, we say we r doing out of love, and we face some adversityif they dont help us or dont stand with us. we starts bllaming them. weexpect too muchfrom our friends also. that is the root cause of all broken relatinships. so what is the solution. the only solution is to lower our expectation from others.other wise it will make our livivng so miserable tht we spoil our life and+ve energy thinking of their ingratitude cheating mentality we end up in ruining ourlife. better children from chidlhood we should make them accept no.not always at least to some situations we should take them tp shops and come out with not buying anything . so slowly they will learn that all their needs r not met.some decipline we should make them udnerstadn that we parents no whahtis good for them. we should fulfill their needs but not immediately once in a hwile theyshould accept no also from us.
is needed.the children who r not used to no when theywere children it is very difficult for them to accept any no or failure when they grow.
regarding to live is to risk not being loved in return I remebbr i read somewhere


to live is to risk dying
to hope is to risk despair or disappointment and
to try is to risk failure.
but risks must betaken love to be shared we get it back or not.
the greatrest hhhhhhhhazard in life is to risk nothing. a person riskks nothing does nothing has nothing and is nothing.love makes the house a home and love makes the woman a mother. love makes you a humanbeing from a body with flesh and blood.
so we should love people weshould give care but
should lower our expetations. so thatwe can ahve a verypeaceful contended and happy life.
why I write it today. i thought may be i hve sufferend a lot by expecting too much from those  lov ed ones whom Iloved like anything. and where not there for me when Ireally wanted them to be with me. I felt as a lost ship in the huuge ocean maybe from those frineds whom Igave
too much care andattention and help didnt helped me in time. so i thought i must include this in my new year resolutions to lower or not to expect anything from anyubody. it is verydifficlut
but as nothing is impossible this also can be possible. a self help. to make our living a more peaceful and happy one.


if we really want to get along with people and have a happy life we hve to take the pill of not expecting anyhitng in return. just do yourduty as a wife, mother,. friennd or daughter in law. if they want to give well and good. if not it is their problem still yougivie them. how good the world will be. lelt us test this and seehow it works. a samll remedy for abig problem.

THE THREE IMPORTANT WORDS FORGIVE FORGET AND REMEMBER

HOW IMPORTANT THESE THREE WORDSR IN OOUR LIFE WE FORGET SOMETIMES IT IS TIME TO SAY GOODBYE TO 2008 AND WELCOME WITH BOTH HANDS THE NEW YEAR 2009. WE RECEIVE NEW YEAR WITH LOTSOF HOPE DREAM AND EXPECTATION. BEFORE WE SET RESOLUTIONS I THINK IT IS VERY IPORTANNT FOR ALL OF US TO HAVE THESE WORDS . WE ALL HAVE THE HABIT OF BROODING OVER TOO MUCH INTO THE PAST. IF IHAD KNOWN THAT I WOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE THIS I F I HAD LITTLE INOFRMATION,. IF I WAS BIT CAREFUL, IF I HAD AND THEN WE REGRET A LOT ON OUR FOOLISHNESS THE MISTAKE WE HAVE DONE IN THE PAST AND THE LIST GOES. ON. IF WE COULD GO ABCK AND CHANGE THOSE STUPID TIMES. BUT NOT.THE QUESTION HERE IS DO WE NEED TO GIVE TOO MUCH IMPORTANCNE TO THE MISTAKE WE HAVE DONE.? SEE IT IS' BHOOT ' WHY IT IS BOOT IT SCARES US WE R LIVING IN THE PRESNT IT IS GIFIT OF GOD BY THINKING TOO MUCH AND WORRYING TOO MUCH ABOUTHE PAST NOTONLY WILL TAKE AWAY ALL THE +VE ENERGEY BUT IT WILLMAKE US FEEL LESS CONFINDNET AND OUR SELF ESTEEM WILL BE LESS. BETTER WE JUST LEARN FROM OURMISTAKES AND TRY NOT TO REPEAT IT THAN TOO MUCH WORRYING ABOUT WHAT I COULDHAVE DONE OR WHAT I COULDHAVE AVOIDED.ONLY THEN WE CAN MOVE AHEAD AND ACHEIVE SOMETHING INLIFE.. WE SHOULD TRY TO MAKE THE SCARS OF PAST TO STARS OF FUTURE. WE HAVE TO LOOK FOR THE LIGHT IN FUTURE THAN TOO MUCH CRUSING ON THE DARKENSS.
IF WE HAVE DONE SOEMTHING TO SOME ONE IT IS TIME TO TAKE IT OUT FROM OUR MIDN IF WE HAVE TO SHOW OUR THANKS TO SOEMONE SHOW IT NOW. DONT CARRY THE -VE THOUGHTS TO 2009,LEST WILL SPOIL OURSELVES FIRSTTHANTHE OTHR PERSON. HERE WE HAVE TO FORGIVE THOS WHO HAVE DONE SOMTHING BAD TO US.NTAKE THE VENOM OURT AND SAY SORRY. AND SEE HOW MUSH RELEVED YOU FEEL AND YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF. THE GREAT FEELING. FORGET THE GOOD THINGS YOU HAVE DONE TO OTHERS. REMEMBER THOSE WHO HAVE HELOPED YOU IN ANYWAY. SAY THNKS IN WORDS OR IF YOUCOULD BY DEEDS..
ANY RELATIONSHIP CAN BE BROKEN SO EASILY. BUT BUILDINGA STRON G RELATIONSHIP YOU MAY NEED ALIFE TIME. SO DONT LET THE RELATIONSHIP BRAKE. GIVE IT A TRY.
WE R TOO OCCUPIED WITH THE THOUGHT OF WHAT WE DONT HAVE SO FORGET O THANK GOD FOR THOSE 1000THINGS WE AHVE. I REMEBR A STORY READ SOMEWHERE. A MAN COMPLAINING ABOUT HIS TORN DRESSES SHOES ETC TO GOD, UNTIL HE SEES A MAN WITHOUT TWO LEGS. AND HOW THANKFUL WE SHOULD BE FOR GETTING ALL ORGANS INTACT. WE R BLESSED THAN THE MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE . SO SAY THINKS TO GOD FOR HIS BLESSINGS. GOD HAS GIVEN US HEALTH MONEY NOT BE ENJOYED OR USED FOR OUR 0W N SELFISHEEDS BUT ALSO TO BE SHARED WITH THOSE R IN NEED SO THAT WHEN BAD TIME COMES TO US THERE WILLBE PWOPLE AROUND US TO HELP US.EVERYTHING GOES OUT WILL COME BACCK , BUT IN MANYFOLDS. YOU MAY BE A DOCTOR , AN ENGINEER AN ADVOCATE OR A BUSINESS MAN YOUR OBJECTIVES R DIFFERENT BUT WE ALL R HUMAN BEINGS FIRST ND WE SHOUL;D NOT FORGET OUR FIRST DUTY TO HUANBEINGS.,
GOD IS LOVE AND LOVE IS GOD. LOVE TO GOD IS REFLECTED IN SERVING THE POOR AND NEEDY.
SO FRIENDS WHATEVER WE DO OUR ATTITUDE SHOULDREFLECT AND THAT SHOULD BE GOOD AND+VE.

WE SHOULD MAKE THESE IMPORTANT WORDS OUR WAY OF LIFE AND HOW SIMPLE AND SERENE OUR LIFE BECOMES HOWPEACEFUL LIFE BECOMES . IT IS NOT A LECTURE IAM GIVING HERE NOT WHAT I DO. IT IS MY RESOLUTION I TRY TO APPLY THOSE WORDS IN MY LIFE AND K KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THEY R SO ITHOUGHT WHY NOT ME SHARE MY RESOLUTION WITH OTHERS SO THAT THEY CAN INCLUDE IT TO THEIR OWN RESOLUTINS.WITH EVERYPASSING YEAR WE TAKE A STEP AHEAD , OR NEAR TO DEATH. ASO NOTHING SHOULD BE TOO LATE. WISH YOU ALL AVERY HAPPY PEACEFUL AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR.

GRATITUDE THE BEAUTIFUL WORD

.iwas wondering what is the best or ones of the best qualities a human being should have. My query ended when my mind my experioence and my knowledge ended its journy
to the word the mark of heart and cheer of soul ended at the word GRATITUDE. GRATITUDE IS A FEELING A +VE FEELING. IT REALLY IPROVOES OUR PESONALITYAND TAKES THE INNER BEAUTY OUT AND IT DEVELPS HUMILITY .It is conveyed through our attitude towards others and reflects in our actions. Gratituude does not mmean receprocating good deeds, beze gratitudue is not give and take. Gratitudue would rank among the top qualities that form the character and opersonality of an idividual with integrity. Ego is the main stumbling block./ aslong with little jealousy. gratitudue should betheway of life. yes that is the best quality of ones the best quality ora + emotion which uplift you or make you a real human being .why? so many resons. we shouldstart the day with abig thanks to God for the sound sleep calm night as said earlier all organs in tact.
the great truth we r alive. secondly to the nature for what ever it gives to us. beze little of its fury or imbalnce can make evrything go topsy-turvy..may be beze earlier timems our ancestors used to treat the sun,moon even the trees as Gods. What a way to show the gratitude. but we ,an intospection is needed. we r good at spoiling them the culture and make fun of those who does it. our
inflated ego or the so called sophisticated mentality doesnt allow us to treat them as gods. Yes gratitude isthe greatest qualitywe should have i mean showinng gratitude to those who gave birth to us make capable for thibnkingand stnding at our own feet. and those who ,.r not our parents or brothers or sisiters who had suffered little pain for us has given us sosmthing on the way up, may be teachers may our relativies or somebody doesnt belong to any of these category. a great thanks and gget a chance to give it back to be debt free is a great quality.,
it all make me remember a story i read or has got it from somebody. there is so many people qued to get inot the hell and veryfew in heaven asked why so many. so God said. they r the ones who nevr said a thanks to me in their life.
I havenoticed it many of the people whom i come accross or aquintd with,. the moment they feel they dont want us anymore and they r capable of meeting their own needs they forget us ordeleiberately dont remember us. But believe me or not the history shows themoment you show the ingratitude the nature forms something bad for you. it will come to you oneday..this is my beleif and my knowledge says to me. so i make it a point to show gratitude expecially by actions to those who have doen somthing for me. let it be anybody. beze a bad momemt if the other person thinks what not i have done for her/him now see they dont even turn and look at me. the curse is enough to make us suffer alot. .God has tested me a numbrer of times. many atimems we feel it is going to be the end of the world. we feel really confusd helpless. but to be very honest if we have a clear conscious and have some of these good habits God will help us strive through any difficult situation He will be with us in every thick and thin. I have experienced 80 bad and 20 good but that 20 good r so good that i tend to forgetthe 80 bad things that has happend to me. there were momentns i lived like a queen with all pleasures and there were momentns i felt as a nobody.. but one thing was surue God was always with me and helped me throughout . So A Big Thanks to Him.. Beze of Him even the 80 bad times i could take into my strides. and move ahead with my head erectd.
because life is BOOMERANG.sooner or later it returns to us with great accuracy. we all havethe habit of justifying oiur own acts.but have you evrthought of crtiticising ur acts. be your own crtic. But while doing somethig to somebody we shouldnt expect gratitude in return. So freinds think back and try to recall the people who had a positive influence in you, let it be anyone who spent extra time to spent with you, they willingly sacrificed their time effort or money and many other things for you . They didi it out of love to you, not foryour thankfullness. perhaps it is not too late to thank them. love requires sacrifice it is not selfish... ... let us all spent out rest of life by showing gratitude through words, deeds and even smiles. and make our life debt free.

CHILDREN R THE GIFTS OF GOD.

Children r the gifts of God ,for they change the life of everyone.
they bring colours and shine to our life
TEARS WERE IN MY EYEYS WHEN I WAS INFORMED,YOU HAVETAKEN BIRTH INSIDE ME
THE WALLS OF MY HEART CANNOT CONCEAL THE THROBS OF MY HEART. WHICH RHYTHEMATICALLY
RECITED THE JOY OF MY SOUL
IGAVE YOU DAIKLY GOOD THOUGHTS ALONG WITH GOOD FOOD= FOR I KNOW]
YOU R GOING TO BE GOOD AND WELL AS HEALTHY
YOUMADE ME DRESS UP NICELY, EVEN YOU R SMALLER THAN A FIST.
I LAUGHED WITH GLEE AT THE MOMENT I GAVE BRITH TO YOU,
FORGETTING ALL THE PAINS WHICH I HAD , AS I KNOW
YOUR GOING TOCHANGE MY WORLD FOR GOOD AND
YOU R GOING TO BE A PART OF MINE I FELT PROUD
SINCE YOUHAVE GIVEN METHE WORLDS GREATEST HONOUR.
THE HOUNOUR OF BEING A GREAT MOTHER.
I WELCOMED YOU WITH MY HANDS WITH FULL OF JOY AND HEARTWITH FULL OF LVOE.
BEZE I KNOW YOU HVE COME TO CHANGE MY WORLD.
YOU CASTED A MAGIC SPELL ON ME AND MY WORLDS
STARTD REVOLVING AROUND YOU.
YOU GAE METHE FEELING AND CONFIDECE WHICH NMAD ME FEEL]
IAM ONTHE TOP OF THE WORLD. I WISH AND EXPRESS HERE A BIG THANKS TO GOD]
SINCE GRATITUDEIS THEMARK OF HEART , FO GIVING ME A CHILD FULL OF LOVE.


THIS POEM IDEDICATE TO ALL THOSE MOTHERS WHO R VERY HAPPY AND FELT PROOUD OF GETTING ACHILD. I FELT I SHOULD EXPRESS MY FEELINGS BEFORE IWRITE ABOUT A SPECIAL CHILD
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i have come accross many children inmyliife i was fortunate enough to interact with many children. but some children leave a special mark on ourheart and we tend to remebr them each dayeachnmomnet. such a child was NIMMU NIMNA, I FIRSTMETHER WHEN SHE WS ONLY 6 MONTHS OLD. EVEN THAT TIME SHE WAS SHOWING SOME SPECIAL TRAITS.]MYSECOND MEETING WITH HER IS FEWMONTHS BACK WHEN SHECAME EHRE AND SHE WAS 3 YRS BYTHAT TIME. EACHCHILD IS DIFFERENT DIFFERENT BUDS OF DIFFERENT FLOWERS. SHEIS A SPECISL BUD I CALLHER WONDER KID. BEFIORE I WRITE ABOUT HERE IN DETAIL KLET ME PUT A BLACKSPOT ON HER CHEEK ... TO WARD OFF THE EVIL EYE.

NIMNA IS GIFT OF GOD TO NEENA. A BEST GIFT. I LIKE GIRLS ALOT , MAY BE BEZE I HAVE NOTICIED SO MUCH/ I HARDLY GOT TIME TO SPEND WITH HER. , I MEAN NOTUP TO MY HEARTS CONTENT. BUT WHATEVER LITTLE I GOT I ENJOYD WIT HER. WHO EVER HAVE SPENT SOME TIMWE WITH NIMNA WILL HAVETHE SME OPINION OF MINE, IAM SURE. MY DEFINITION OF NIMMU

YOU R A SWEET FLOWER OF ROSE, ITS FRAGRANCE IS SO SWEET,
YOUR EYES R LIKE TWINKING STARTS ON THE SKY
YUR CHUBBY CHEEKS R SO SWEET , AND SOFT
UR SMILE IS LIKE THE FULL MOON, SO BRIGHT .
COMES IN ONCE IN A WHILE ONLY
.YOU CAST A MAGIC SPELL WHEREVER YOU GO
YOUR A FINE BLEND OF INTELELGENCE AND BEAUTY.
MAY GOD HELP YOU TO UTILISE GOD GIVEN TALENTS INTHE RIGHT WAY
SO THAT YOU BRIGHTEN THE WORLD EVEN MORE.

. THE MOST ATRACTIVE PART OF HER IS HER GETTING ADJUSTED WITH PEOPLE AND SITUATIONS. SHE STEALS THE EHART OF PEOPLE WHEREVR SHE GOES. HER MOTHER KEPT ON CHANGING PLACES . BEFOR SHE COULD REALIZE WHERE SHE IS SHE GOES TO TOHER PLACESHOW FAST NEENA CHANGES SHE KEPT ON TRAVELLING FROM KAKANAD TO COHIN FROM COCHIN TO MADRAS FROM THERETO THIRUPATHY AND VAGAIN ABCK KOCHI THEN AMBALAPUZHA BEFORE SHE THINKS WHERESHE IS SHE CHANGES PLACE. BUT I HAVENOTICED EVRYDAYWHEN SHE GETS UP NEW PLACE NEW PEOPLE BUT SHE BEHVES AS IF ALL R KNOWN TO HEHR AND SHE JUST GET ALONG EITH THEM ANDTHE SITUATION I CANT IMAGINE MY CHIDLREN GETTINGADJUSTD SO FAST,SHE BEHAVES AS IF NOTHING IS NEW TO HER . REALLY CANT IMAGINE A CHILD OF 3 GETTING ADJUSTED SO FAST, WHETHER IT IS TRAIN AUTO BIG BUS OF AC CAR SHE JUST ENJOYS, RATHER SHEENJOYS AUTO AND BUS THEN HER UNCLES OR MY A/C CAR.. hER ABILITY TO ADAPT WITH CHANGING SITUATION IS REALLY PRAISE WORTHY. SHE HRDLY STAYED SOMEWHERE FOR A LONG TIME ALWAYS ON WHEELS.
SECONDKLY WHAT MADE ME HER FAN IS HER SINGING AND MAKING SONGS INSTANTLY . HO GOD I CANT BELIEVE A CHILD THE MOMNET SHE SEES SOME COLOUR SHE STRATS SINGING ONTHAT COLOUR THAT TOO IN HER OWN TUNE. THEMONET SHE SEES SOMEBODY SHE STARTS SINGING ON THEM SHE JUST WANT A SUBJECT TO MAKE SONG AND SING LET IT BE A BUSYSTREET OR A SHOPPING MALL , THAT IS IMMATERIAL TO HR,. SHE IS IN HERV OWN WORLD SINGING ANDDANCING.
VERYRARELY WE SEE CHUILDREN OG THIS AGE SINGS AND THAT TOO SONGS MADE INSTANTLY.

ANOTHER SPECIAL THING I NTICED WAS HER PRESENCE OF MIND AND TIT FOR TAT ANSWERING,. YOU ASK ANYTING HER ANWETR IS SO FAST AND CORRECT. SHE MAKE IT A POINT TO TELL IT SPECIFICALLY..ANOTHER ONE HERMEMORY POWER. JUSTONCNE YOU TAKE HER TO A PLALCE NEXTTIME YOU PASS THAT WAY IN CAR SHERECOGNIZES, SHE BORN AND BROUGHT UP IN US THESE ROADS ANDSTREETS SO STRNGE TO HER. BUT FAST SHEREALIZES. SHE HAS VERY GOOD OBSERVING AND ABSORBING POWER.

SHE BYSEEING OUR FACIAL EXPRESSION READS OURMIND. SO SMALL BUT SHE REACTS TO OUR INNNER MOODS. NEENA MUST BE KNOWIG THIS FACT MORE BEZE I THINK HER HEARTBEATS R WELL IN TUNE WITH NIMMUS. SHE HAS A VERY GOOD SENSING POWER. THEHRE R LOTS OF EXAMPLES AND SITUATION WHERE I FELT IT.
SHE IS NOT A LUGHING BIRD BUT SHE MAKEOTHRS LAUGH SHE HAS THAT SENSE OF HUMOUR.
SHEKNOWS WHAT IS ONE'S WEAKNENSS ANDSTRENGTHS. WHEVER SHE COMES TO ME SHEKNOWS WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY AND WHATMAKES ME SAD. SHE SAYS THAT ACCORDING TO HR MOOD TO ME. SO LVING THTI RECOLLECT MANY A TIMES THOSESCENES,. WHICH REALLY CHERISH IN MY MEMORY.

SHE DO JUSTICE TO HER FEELINGS. ONCE MYSISTER AND NEENA WENT TO A BHAGAVATHY TEMPLE. THERE MY SISTER TOLD YOU LIKE ME THEBN SHE TOLD YES, I LIKE YOU PAPAKKA,. I WASNOT THERE. THEN SHE CAME BACK AND TOLD I LIKE MY MAMA ALSO AND VANDAKKA SLO. I WAS NOT THERE BUT SHE WANTNS TO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT SHE LOVES US ALSO.
ANOTHER THING I HVE NOTICED IS SHE IS MUCH MUCH MATURE THAN HR AGE. SHE IS VERY UNERSTANDING. WHERE HER MAMMA GOES FOR WHTSHE GOES. SHE IS NOT MAKING ANY FUSS THATMAMAMIS NOT TAKING HR ALONG. MY SON WOULD HAVE DONE IT EVEN NOW.HE IS 6 YRS.SHE UNDERSTANDS . THOUGH SHEHAS HEROWN STUBBORNESS SHE IS WELL TACKLED . SHEJUST ADJUSTS WITH SITUATIONS FAST .SHE IS A GREAT FOLLOWEROF HER MOTHER .
SHE IS VERY CAREFUL EACH STEP SHE TAKES CAREFULLY TO SEE ANY DANGER IS THERELIKE.
CHILDREN R NOT SO CAREFULA THIS AGE RUNNING AROUND SO CRELESSLY. BUT SHE IS VERYCAREFUL. SHE GREETS ANDSAY THANK YOUANYONE SHEMEETS ON THE ROAD.MAY BE US CULTURE.IN TEMPLE SHE KLNOW S ALL THE TRADITIONS AND SHE EVEN MADE MY CHIDLREN FOLLOW ANTHER THING SHE IS NOT BOTHERED ABOUT ANYONE. LETIT BE PUBLIC OR BUSYOPLALCE IF SHEWANTS TODOSOETHING SHE DOES. SHE CATCHES OTHERS FEELINGS FAST. MYYOUNGER SON ISBIT JEALOUS OF HER. BEZE I GIVE MOREATTENTION TO HER. SHE REALIZED IT FAST SHE ALWAYS MAKE IT A POINT TO TEASE AND TROUBLEHIM. SHE NEVR WASTED A SINGLE CHANCNE OF TROUBLING HIM. BUT MY ELDERSON SHE IS FREINDLY.
SHE IS A REFLECTION OF NEENAS FEELINGS SHE GRASPS HERMOODS FAST.
THE COMPARSION ALSO SHE DOES VERY CORRECTLY WHOM FOR WHOM PAIRS. SHE IS NOT FOND OF ALL THE TOYS OR PLAY THINGS SHE HAHS HER OWN LIKES AND DISLIKES IN C HOOSING AND OPLAYING WITHTHEM. NORMALLY CHILDREN OFTHIS AGE LIKE TO PLAY WITHEERYTHING AND ANYTHING. BUT SHE IS NOT. IF I WRITE THERE CAN BE HUNDERS THINGS I CAN BUTI THINK THESE R THINGS OR SPECIAL FEATURESI FOUND IN NIMNA. NEENA AND RAJESH R LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH AN UNDERSTANDING CREATIVE AND INTELLIGENT CHILD. A REAL GIFT OF GOD. RATHER THE BEST GIFT. WHY I WROTE THIS . ACTUALLY IT IS A GIFT TO NIMMU FROM ME . TOMORROW I MIGHT FORGET HOW SHE WAS ,. I EVEN FORGET HOW MY CHILDREN WERE AT THIS AGE.. SO THIS TO BEREMEMBERED FOR EVER. GOD BLESS YOU NIMMU.

ME AND MY DEFINITION ON ME

THE SOLE INTENTION HERE IS TO GIVE A PICTURE OF ME TO THOSE WHO DONT KNOW ME, WHAT KIND OF A PERSON IAM.THE REASON IS SIMPLE FOR SOME IAM TOO GOOD AND FOR SOME IAM NOT. MAY BE I DONT BELONG TO THEIR CATEGORY SEE ME THROUGH MY EYES. EXTERIOR IS NOT SO SIMPLE BUT AT HEART IAM A SIMPLE PERSON.IAM NOT TOO SOPHISTICATED NEITHER IAM AN OLD FUDDY -DUDDY I DONT BELONG TO THOSE TALL AND STOUT ONES NEITHER IAM A TOOSHORT ONE.. NEITHER I BELONG TOTHE MOST BEAUTIFUL ONES NOR A N UGLY ONE.
I AM NOT TOO HONEST LIKE HARICHANDRA BUT NOT A LIAR AT ALL. I DONT LIKE TO UNNECESASRILY LIE.TO MY KITH AND KINS IAM AN OPEN BOOK.NOTHING MUCH TO HIDE. MY ANOTHER BELIEF BE TRUE TO UR FEELINNNGS AND BE YOURSELF. MY WEAKNESSES AND STRENGTHS R MY OWN LOVED ONE, WHAT I MEAN NOT MY FAMILY BUT MY LOVED ONES , THE CIRCLE IS LITTLE WIDER. I FIND MY WORLD IN THEM AND MAKING THEM HAPPY IS MY HAPPINESS. DAY IN AND DAY OUT I REMAIN BUSY WITH MY WORK BUT MY THOUGHTS R OCCUPIED BY MY LOVED ONES. MY BELIEF IS IF YOU HAVE CLEAN AND CLEAR CONSCIOUS YOUR THE WEALTHIEST AND THE MOSOT CONTENDED ONE IN THIS WORLD. I DONT DO TOO MUCH CHARITY BUT I SEE TO THAT I DONT HURT ANYONE NEITHER BY WORDS NOR BY DEEDS.FOR ME MY DUTY IS MOROE IMPORTANT THAN MY BEAUTY. I STROGNLY BELIEIVE I JUSTFY MY POST GIVEN PERODICALLY BY GOD LET IIT BE OF SISTER MOTHER WIFE OR AUNT. I HAHVE ONETHING IN ABUNDANCE TO GIVE AND SHARE THT IS MY LOVE TO MY LOVED ONES. MY PRAYERS R TO GOD GIVE ME STRENGTH TO ENRICH MY LIFE . SOTHAT WHEN I LOOK BACK AT MY OLD AGE , ISHOULDNT FEEL THAT I HAVE WASTED MY LIFE OR I HAVE DONE SOMTHING WRONG TO SOMONE. I WAS A HYPER SENSITVE PERSON BUT LIFE HAS MADE ME TOUGH AND NOW A BALANCED PERSON, BUT NOT TOO UNRUFFLED MY VIEWS R MODERN BUT MY CULTURE AND TRADITION R OLD THERE IAM A FUDDY DUDDY . MY HOBBIIES HARDLY GET TIME FOR THAT. BUT I MAKE IT A POINT TO READ GOOD BOOKS TO KEEP MYSELF UPDATED AND BALANCNED. SOME PEOPLE THINK THAT IAM AKNOWLEDGABLE LADY BUT TO BE HONEST IAM NOT. IAM NOT EVEN AT THE FIRST STEP OF THE LADDER OF KNOWLEDGE. WHY I SAY LOVE IS ERYTHING AND MOST VALUED BEZE THAT IS THE ONE THING I LOST WHEN I WAS VERY YOUNG I LSOT PARENTS AT A VERY EARLY AAGE. BUT TO MY LUCK MY BROTHRHS LOOKED AFTR ME WELL. THANKS TO THEM.. I TRY TO BE +VE PERSON . I STROBGLY BELEIVE GOD HAS BIGGER DREAMS FOR ME , THANK WHAT I HAVE FOR ME. SO GOD EVRYTHING IS YOUR MERCY.
SO GUYS HOPE YOU HAVE GOT A PICTURE OF MINE. BUT I FOGOT TO WRITE MY -VES . SO TALKATIVE , LITTLE SHORT TEMPERED , A LITTLE COMPLEX
HERE AND THERE LITLE EGOISTIC AND FINE BLEND OF ALL THESE MAKE THE ME.. AND FINALLHY A TRUSTWORTHY TAUREAN.

WINTER MY SWEET WINTER

WINTER MY SWEET WINTER
This peom is dedicated to my neice Neena.
Yesterday night while sleeping i was thinking how ur enjoying winter. i got these words inside my heart which i put out into here.It is for you.
WINTER MY SWEET WINTER I KNOW- UR NOT SWEET TO MANY
BUT UR SO SWEET TO ME BEZE WINTR IS THE TIME-
I GET TO KNOW THE NATURES BEAUTY
WINTERIS THE TIME TREES SHED THEIR LEAVES
AND SHOW US THEIR HEART OUT. HOWMUCH
THEY WANT TO SHED THEIR OLD BAD HABITS
AND WAITING FOR THE NEW GOOD ONENS THE FRESH
ONES TO COME AND EMBRACE THEM
AND MAKE THEM MORE BEAUTIFUL
WINTER IS THE TIME GOD MAKE THEM
TOUGH TO BEAR THE COLD WITHOUT A COVER ONTHEM
WINER IS THE TIME WE GET TIME TO KNOW OURSELF
WINTERIS THE TIME I RELAX INSIDE AND ENJOY MY LONLINESS
WINTNER ISTETIME I SPEND MORE TO KNOW MYSELF
WINNER IS THE TIMEI DEVELOP MOREPATIENCE AND POWER
WINTER ISTHE TIME I TAKE TIME OFF TO THINK ABOUT OTHERS
WINTER IS THE TIMEI DEDICATE MYSELF MORE FOR MYSELF AND MY FAMILY
WINTERISTHE TIME I TEST MYSELF HOW CAN I BE NORE HAPPY AND BUSY
WINTNERISTHE TIMEI BECOME MORE KNOWLEDGABLE-BY -MAKING BOOKS MY FRIENDS=
WINTER IS THE TIME I REFINE MYSELF BY GOING NEAR TO GOD MORE AND MORE
WINTNER IS THETIMEI TEST MY COOKING EXPERTISE
WINTER IS THE TIMEI TAKE MY TALENTS OUT MORE TO KEEP MYSELF BUSY]
WINTER IS THE TIME I LOVE MYSELF AND MY FAMILY MORE
WINTER IS THE TIME I DO CARE NY BODY MORE
WINER IS THE TIME I BECOME MORE BEAUTIFUL
WINTER IS THE TIME I TAKE MY INNER BEAUTY AND STRENGTH OUT
WINTER IS THE TIMEI SIT SIMPLY LIKE MEDITATION AND MY MIND TRAVELS AND ENJOY
WINTER IS THE TIME FOR ALL THOSE GOOD THINGS WHICH I HAVE MISSEDOUT
WINTER IS THE TIME I REALLY PRAY GOD HOW SWEET U ARE
WINTER IS THE TIME I REALIZE THE NAKED TRUTH LIFE IS NOT SUMMER ALWAYS
IT TEACHES ME THE ORDER OF NATURE IS BOTH UPS AND DOWNS SAD AND JOY
WINTER AND SUMMER YOU HVE TO BE A BALNCED PERSON TO ACCEPT THEM BOTH
SO WINTER UR SO SWEET AND I REALLY LIKEYOU. UR WELCOME IAM WAITNG FOR YOU
I RECEIVE YOU WITH MY BOTH HANDS AND A HEART FULL OF IDEAS TO DO IN THIS WINTER
HO WINTER UR SO SWEET TO ME AND PEOPLE LIKE ME.

LOVE THE MAGIC WORD

Iwas thinking what is the most valued and essential thing in the world. my search has ended inthse 4 letters, which makes all the difference in ones life.It is the magic word of LOVE. The world rotates around ir and it binds the world together. what a lvoely word ,what not people do to get it,. the toughtest become a child and child become the toughest bygetting these magic nector. For me my belief tells me this is the most important word in the world. The world exists on its strength. History tells us king abandoned the throne for his love , people died for their love people fight war for their love..But this magic word has different meaning. The purest of the purest mother's love to the child.she sacrifices herself for getting a child wht not she does to see him grow.she showers love with all her might. Nature love us it showers its blessings through beauty which is unmatchable, and gives everything to meet our needs, let it be food, wood or oil.all hr mercy.and God loves us like anything He doesnt seewhther we love Him or not he just showers his love on us in abundancne tht is why everymorning we get up healthy and intact, all complicated machines inside thebody works in complete co ordination. A girl leaves evrything behind her after marriage parents, house friends kins evrything to get husbands love. The strnge man suggendly becomes her own part, she is ready to sacrifice. There also her likes dislikes becomes or merges with him.
There r dangerous love which politicians shows during elction to the people suddenly they become so soft hearted to the public , it is their deep love to that CHAIR which will make them famous and willswell their pockets without shedding too much sweat.What a love.Lovoe showm by the shopkeeper to get rid of his unsold stuffto us willdefinetely offer u cooldrinks.(My husband is also running business but the diffrence is he never shows love to this clients neither offer any cool drinks. sodoesnt belong to this category. If he was in this catgory we would hvebeen crorepathis by this time. So I spare him) Your employers love to you, the moment ur capacity decreases,so is his love to you. The r conditional and unconditional love. But most painful thing is now a days true love is a rare thing.Everywhere conditions r applied. If only you love me , you fulfillmy needs I loveyou. Iam I right.? Why we dont lose anything by lvoing people.You get many things by loving people the moment you start loving people the nature reward you with a glowing heart shining eyes and glowing face. you become more +ve. ..So let us all love each othehr the the mosot remarkable part of human nature. LOVE TO GOD IS WORSHIP LOVE TO CHILREN IS AFFECTION, LOVE TO BOOKS IS WISDOM, LOVE TOCOUNTRY IS PATRIOTISM AND LOVE TO PEOPLE AROUND IS WHAT THE MEANING OF LIFE IS. SO LOVE COME AND EMBRACE THE WHOLE WORLD AND DO UR MAGIIC ON ALL OF US SO THAT WE LIVE IN HARMONYAND PEACE.

LITTLE HISTORY

' LET MY HEART OUTSHINE MY HEAD WHILE WRITING
LET MY BRAIN STOP THE LOGIC WHILE WRITING
LET MY FEELINGS FLOW FROM HEART WHILE WRITING
LET MY BELIEFS STAND WITH ME WHILE WRITING;
LET MY DREAMS GET THE LIGHT WHILE WRITING
LET MY BLOG BRING SMILE ON THE FACE OF THE READER
LET MY WRITNGS GIVE SHINING TO THE HEART OF ALL.
LET THERE BE PEACE ALL AROUND
I DONT KNOW WHTHER THIS IS MY WISH OR PRAYER. BUT REALLY WISH I COULD DO THIS TO ALL. Let each word we speak has a +ve impact on the listener .let each word we write has a midas touch or a soothing effect to the reader.I will feel as mylife is enriched and enlightened . Pen and tongue has the power to hut and also to heal. so I pray God never let my pen , i mean my words written here hurt any noble soul, let it spread only the good things, beze i believe we dont hve the right to hurt someone, if we cant give happiness we shouldnot hurt also.

December 15th 2008

Today a great day in mylife to start writing in the blog. For me as the heading reads my beliefs r like start anything and evrything in life by expressing gratitude. At the outset let me thank my neice who is the real inspiration From childhood it was my passion to write and keep things. I had a dairy but I lost it.. My mentor from very childhood was my elder brother from whom I got the first lessons of self decipline , the quest for knowleldge ,reading habit and what not. so a great thanks to him.. And Of course the Almighty without whose blessings nothing moves. Now comes my husband who have been and is a pillar of strength and support for whahtever i do, ofcourse good things. He like a father guides me . and of course few of my friends who have sown the seeds of reading habit ,especially good books. A big thanks to them and if i have missed out anyone to them also. I have a sea of ideas popping up in my mind trying to get a front seat . But iam confused whom to give the front seat. May be bit confused . May be be it is too lat now may be after a good sleep i might know whom to give the preference. so bye for now and will come with my beliefs and dreams tomorrow.