New year Resolution
It is quite a long time since i have written in my blog. what is the exact reason i dont know it is mere laziness or sothing. hard to specify.
when it is coming tothe end of one year and the beginning of another we all think of resolutions, to better ourselves, to have a better tomorrow more peaceful and properous.
every year I used to take resolutions. but how far i implemnt them i dont know. but since it is a practice this time also iam thinking whaht to take.
i jus twas wondering when i read the newspaper everyday 75% of th news r of robbery, attack. killing accidents and and above all the misdoings of politicians and the police., i man to say those who has power in their hands.
our society has shrrunk to a level;where few years back we had dared to imagine. thatmuch corruption and bad things all around us.
I know i cant change the world. but i always remebr when we feel wecant change our world or people around us we candefinetely try totchange oruselves.
where should be the change next question whther it is to change myself for the betterment of myself and my family or it should be of a bigger horizon.
anyway i honestl;y pray God to help me take resolution which changes me for the good of everyone.
so here i take a resolution 1. I WILL MAKE MONEY BY HARDWORK BUT NEVER BY ANY BAD OR ILLEGAL MEANS.
2.I WILL TRY TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY BUT I NEVR WILL TRY TO MAKE MYSELF HAPPY AT THE COST OF OTHERS HAPPINESS.
3. LET THE WHOLE WORLD BE LIKE WHAT MAY , TO ME. BUT I WILL NEVER KEEP ANY HARD FEELINGS TOWARDS ANYONE. LET THE WHOLE WORLD HATE ME I WILLNEVER HATE ANYONE.IF POSSIBLE TRY TO LOVE EVERYONE .
4. I WILLTRY TO LIVE A SIMPLE LIFE.
AND ABOVE ALL I DEDICATE MY REST OF LIFE TO MY FAMILY FIRST THEN MY CLOSE RELATIVES AND FREINDS. AND WHATEVER LITTLE I COULD DO TO THE WOLRD I WILLNEVER HESITATE TO DO.
IT STARTS FROM THE SMALLEST LEVEL OF NEIGBOUR TO THE STANGER WHO I MEET ON THEROAD.
THESE R MY resolutions. and i know some of them i really practicing all these years. i never ever madeanyoney by illegal or any bad means. i never grabbed or cheated anyone in my life.I always tried to love everyone. i never hated everyone. but still you can always becoem a better person.
SO HERE I HONESTLY AND FROM MY HEART OF HEART PRAY GOD TO MAKE EACH PERSON A BETTER PERSON AND TRY TO MAKE THIS WORLD A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE ON.
how could people jus thinkof theselves and make money by killing, grabbing,.c heating and hood winking the public. how could people be so selfih and jus tthink aboutheir family and children. how could people be so cruel. who do adulteration even in life savign medicines, who add dreadly things to even baby food. how could people be so cruel do terrorisem. why theydont fear the Nature.
at least i wish God has gien them some sense to think WHATEVER GOES OUT WILL COME BACK BUTIN MANY OFLDS.
ATLEAST LET US NOT FORGET THIS RULE OF NATURE.
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Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Meaning of prayer.
. this article is the quint essense of what i haveread expereincned and listend to great people.i jsut tried to put them into my won words and my own language.
what is the meaning of charity, prayer and blesiing.
we all have different defintions onthe above subjestcs, but have we ever tried to know the real meanings or definitons of the same. no. beze we always think we are correct and right in ourbelifs/ but the more you gt to know the more you hear fromthe
great souls we cometo knw our beleifs r utterly wrong. yes
it took years to know the truth but why I write here it is alwayswe should learn from others mistkes or expreinces than wwe mke them and learn. wise people learn from others mistakes. fool jsut repeat it and learn
too often we only pray when we need somthing very badly or when we face danger or problmes in life.some people say my prayers are not answered. it is ,the answer may be no as good as yes. dont expect always yes fromGod. a child may be so happy to see the glittering or fire. but we are not so un kind to allow the child to play with fire.same way.God kows what is good or bad for us.God doesn or does not live in temples. but onething is sure he lives inthe hearts of good people. so when you hurt good people you hurt God directly. and when you give love to all,you please HIM like anything. and one thing is very very important every small deed should be thanked. GRATITUDE IS THE MARK OF HEART.
The word prayer or praarthanaa (in Sanskrit) is derived from two words ‘pra’ and ‘artha’ meaning pleading fervently. In other words, it is asking God for something with intense yearning.
people say there should be particular time for praying . but nothing whuile we do work , walk, cook, office evrywhere we jsut feel a little of Him it is prayer that means we make God our constant companion. always have the feeling is somebodywatches us all the time will definetnely help us to refrain from bad things..some people say i willdo this or give this if iget this i willdo this pooja if i get this etc etcit is tht they just treat God as a businees agent. if you dothat God willhelp you,. utter non sense. he is there in every little act of you. theway you talk, behave, give a cup of tea or speak softly. everything is Godly..
then what is the real meaning of thiem.yesiI may notbe 100% correct but iam not at all wrong. see the knweldge which i got from books, life, and listenig to great swamijees, all make me
define these as follows.
Let us start with charity. what is real charity. christians tell it is pure love of christ is charity. that is seeing God in evertyhing andevrywhere is charity.
and what Bhagavat Geetha ssays. realcharity is"Charity given out of duty, without expectation of return, at the proper time and place, and to a worthy person is considered to be in the mode of goodness. real goodness of charity comes where we sacrifice for our fellow beings,reaching out to some one when they r in need,
wiping tears formthe lvoed ones. giving soem thing to the undeserved is utter ignorance. which we many times perform. irgnoring the real deserving and reaching outto those who have alrady a lot is utter igonorance.not knowing what to do when to do and whom to do is utter ginorance. and forgetting ones duty is the worst thing one can perform and his/her prayers willnever reach to God. these are the words of great souls.
so we allhve certain duties to everyone we meet in life it starts right from the parents to those who does somthing to us, lvoe us, and to our neighbours, our fellowpeoople, collegues to the man who we meet on the road.how can we be dutiful tt the man we meet onthe road. but not being trouble some to him. it strts right from the way we walk, we park our vehicles and the way we keep ourselves cleanthe list goes on and on.
thegreatest giftwe can give to one is not to hurt him/her and if possible give a mometn of happiness to him.it is the greatest charity.if our presence makes someone happy it is a charity if we treat those whocome to ourplace with lvoe and devtion it is charity. if we reach out to somebody in trouble letthe person be a king. it is charity mnany people think giving some of their money to the poor is charity. and just ignoring lots of thing which they can do to wipe off the tears from their own loved ones some people give big big speeches of goodthings they do and i have seen them even not fulfilling a smalls childs smallest needs.they are numb to others feelings.
nw wht is paryers. people think just singing Gods praises is paryer. utterely worng. i have seen people who jsut cook inthe mrnign keep everything ready there cool, and goto temple to listen to gita or to pray thinks they willget moksha and punyam. utterly worng. God is in thehappiness of our family and children and performng our duty inthe right way. it starts right from serrving food hot and clean to our own chidlren and family and doing our duties in a most
dutiful manner that r the real prayers. i have seenpeople keeping alltheir cleaning duties and keep the house in ames and goto temples for prayers thinking God will bless. the real prayers toGod is to do your duty clean the house whee the real God lives. the real God lives in your HEART OF HEARTS. and the real prpayers to him and gift to him is not the paryers which you sing or give expecting in return you andyour familys good health and lto of money or a prmotion or any materil thing.etc etc.
thereal prayers is doing your duty as a son, husband, father, nmothr, daughetr, and good realtive, freind or neighbour.and of course above all a real Guest. whoevr comes to our house to be treated as God. ATHITHI DEVO BHAVA. but many of US treat them a menace.I have
seen people thegreat ones who beleive that giving prayers is the best gifit toGod i ahveseen them while giving prayers for hours if somebody comes they just make them sit and wait for them till their prayers end . see no God willaccept yoru prayers if you really trouble your guest sitting there wiating for you impateintly tillyou finish your prayers,. real prayers are you stop your prayer and come and attend the guest if he is wiling let him wait or let him go and then continue your prayers.
[Intercession( meaning feelings for others) and thanks giving the true language of prayers.
people are surrounded by utter selfishness, my wife my chidlren nothing comes aboe
that. so some one comes to our house they treat their life has gone they r distuba
nces,. ..how can such peoples prayers reach God. I have seen people who take bath inthe early morning go to temple and prayfor a long time. it is diefinetely good. but most of thm i hve watched are not people who do good. theycheat people to make money. DOthey go to temple to cleanse their sin evryday are they take God as their saviour for their sins. of course going to temple everyday and todo more crimes.
who is a true baktha who seeks God ineverything who who does his maximum to keep everyone atleat those who are related and nearto him to be happy , do theor dury with a thankful attitude to God.
People might ask questions am I belong tothis group who does things exactly the way it should be. No. a BIg No. iam not a pure soul but i try to be a different person, a betterperson in the mass. whogive value to my own consiucous than anything else.i have seen people spending lakks on God the same pwople when approached by poor or needy shut their door. what is the use of their prayers.who blind themselves no tos ee that their loved ones r in trouble and insted ofreaching out to them goto God and spend there. lakh so
what is thereal prayer, charity and duty it is a fine mixture of everything. when i was inbed one of my freinds who was in real needn of money. i just accumulated the money which was given for my extra needs means juices. any outside food etc ijust gave it to myfrind who was in real need of money to pay her daughters fees and give milk to them. i stillhve that satisfaction. i belive itwas my prayer, charity and duty. when she was in search of job and had to spend a lot to get one i just postponed my renovation work for another year andgave that money to her to help her
toseek a job. i as a freind,it was my duty to reach out to her at tht time.
my wokr got delyed just one more year. i stillhave thesatisfaction that i helped somebody in need and that was my prayer, duty and charity though nobody knows it is we both know about that.
i know there may be people who laugh or make fun ,mock at me wrting this. i dont mind what makes me feeling good is that i am wrting the truth whoch anyone beleives or not remains the truth. and it reminds me again again to follow the right way. which iam trying hard to, still away from it. giving shelter to someone when needed, giving food to somone let it be a king but hungry .,.is a duty, charity and prayer.giving little happiness to anyone, reaching for little help to someone when needed is the greatest prayer..everyday even for small mercies like saving us from our dishes being overcooked or burnt i thank God, for saving me from a fall, i thnk god, for each day each breath i thnk God if we do likethat we are more closer to God than who goes to temple pray for hours and after that jut indluge in spoiling someones happiness or gossipsing, or making money by cheating the public.
how many of us ask ourselves how thank ful i should be to others those who r there to help us guide us to whtevr we aretoday. instead we ithink how thnkful shuld othrs to be to us.we are in a hurry to highlight others mistakes and areready to advice .i repeat iam ot a perfect one who jsut folows this. but sincerely want to follow the path of righteousness. each wordbefore sepaking we should think not to hurt others.
the most valid thngs inthe world is peace of mind andhappinesswhich cannotbe bought by coreers. but can be bought by simple smiles or simple sweet words. but we neverever have the right to spoil anyones mood by speaking harsh words. in this selfish world everywhere conditions apply. husband says if only youlook after me. wife says if only you looklafter me and my chidlren, and chidlren says whyshould we look after you? world has become selfish. i ahveseen earlier we used to get up when a n old lady or man comes inthe bus we used to get
up and give theseat to him. but today who bothers.a man whogets up give seat tothe old man or lady is the person who is doing thereal prayer than the one who sits thereand says i am doing my mantras and prayers dont discturb me icant getup.definetely his prayers are not going to reach the God.the manwho is so contented with what he has is the real riches than the one who hs crores but still unhappy and dissatisfied.
THESE ARE AS I SAID ARE THE COLLECTION OF IDEAS FROM VARIOUS SOURCES, THE BOOKS WHICH IREAD, SOPEECHES I HEARD AND known.
THAMASORMA JYOTHIRGAMAYA
ASATHOMA SATHGAMAYA
MRITHYOMA AMRITHAMGAMAYA.
LET THE DARKENSS FOF OUR HEART BE FILELD WITH LIGHT OF GOOD THOUGHTS AND DEEDS
LET THE DISHOSENTY PAVE WAY TO HONESTY AND SINCE RE LOVE, LET THE BAD KILLING ACTIONS BE TURN INTO LIFE GIVING ONES.
AND LET THE GOD SHOWS US THE RIGHT PATH AND GUIDE US TO GOODTHINGS.SO THAT WE MAKE OUR LIVING WORTH LVING FOR US AND ALLTHOSE WHO ARE CONNECTED TO US.
what is the meaning of charity, prayer and blesiing.
we all have different defintions onthe above subjestcs, but have we ever tried to know the real meanings or definitons of the same. no. beze we always think we are correct and right in ourbelifs/ but the more you gt to know the more you hear fromthe
great souls we cometo knw our beleifs r utterly wrong. yes
it took years to know the truth but why I write here it is alwayswe should learn from others mistkes or expreinces than wwe mke them and learn. wise people learn from others mistakes. fool jsut repeat it and learn
too often we only pray when we need somthing very badly or when we face danger or problmes in life.some people say my prayers are not answered. it is ,the answer may be no as good as yes. dont expect always yes fromGod. a child may be so happy to see the glittering or fire. but we are not so un kind to allow the child to play with fire.same way.God kows what is good or bad for us.God doesn or does not live in temples. but onething is sure he lives inthe hearts of good people. so when you hurt good people you hurt God directly. and when you give love to all,you please HIM like anything. and one thing is very very important every small deed should be thanked. GRATITUDE IS THE MARK OF HEART.
The word prayer or praarthanaa (in Sanskrit) is derived from two words ‘pra’ and ‘artha’ meaning pleading fervently. In other words, it is asking God for something with intense yearning.
people say there should be particular time for praying . but nothing whuile we do work , walk, cook, office evrywhere we jsut feel a little of Him it is prayer that means we make God our constant companion. always have the feeling is somebodywatches us all the time will definetnely help us to refrain from bad things..some people say i willdo this or give this if iget this i willdo this pooja if i get this etc etcit is tht they just treat God as a businees agent. if you dothat God willhelp you,. utter non sense. he is there in every little act of you. theway you talk, behave, give a cup of tea or speak softly. everything is Godly..
then what is the real meaning of thiem.yesiI may notbe 100% correct but iam not at all wrong. see the knweldge which i got from books, life, and listenig to great swamijees, all make me
define these as follows.
Let us start with charity. what is real charity. christians tell it is pure love of christ is charity. that is seeing God in evertyhing andevrywhere is charity.
and what Bhagavat Geetha ssays. realcharity is"Charity given out of duty, without expectation of return, at the proper time and place, and to a worthy person is considered to be in the mode of goodness. real goodness of charity comes where we sacrifice for our fellow beings,reaching out to some one when they r in need,
wiping tears formthe lvoed ones. giving soem thing to the undeserved is utter ignorance. which we many times perform. irgnoring the real deserving and reaching outto those who have alrady a lot is utter igonorance.not knowing what to do when to do and whom to do is utter ginorance. and forgetting ones duty is the worst thing one can perform and his/her prayers willnever reach to God. these are the words of great souls.
so we allhve certain duties to everyone we meet in life it starts right from the parents to those who does somthing to us, lvoe us, and to our neighbours, our fellowpeoople, collegues to the man who we meet on the road.how can we be dutiful tt the man we meet onthe road. but not being trouble some to him. it strts right from the way we walk, we park our vehicles and the way we keep ourselves cleanthe list goes on and on.
thegreatest giftwe can give to one is not to hurt him/her and if possible give a mometn of happiness to him.it is the greatest charity.if our presence makes someone happy it is a charity if we treat those whocome to ourplace with lvoe and devtion it is charity. if we reach out to somebody in trouble letthe person be a king. it is charity mnany people think giving some of their money to the poor is charity. and just ignoring lots of thing which they can do to wipe off the tears from their own loved ones some people give big big speeches of goodthings they do and i have seen them even not fulfilling a smalls childs smallest needs.they are numb to others feelings.
nw wht is paryers. people think just singing Gods praises is paryer. utterely worng. i have seen people who jsut cook inthe mrnign keep everything ready there cool, and goto temple to listen to gita or to pray thinks they willget moksha and punyam. utterly worng. God is in thehappiness of our family and children and performng our duty inthe right way. it starts right from serrving food hot and clean to our own chidlren and family and doing our duties in a most
dutiful manner that r the real prayers. i have seenpeople keeping alltheir cleaning duties and keep the house in ames and goto temples for prayers thinking God will bless. the real prayers toGod is to do your duty clean the house whee the real God lives. the real God lives in your HEART OF HEARTS. and the real prpayers to him and gift to him is not the paryers which you sing or give expecting in return you andyour familys good health and lto of money or a prmotion or any materil thing.etc etc.
thereal prayers is doing your duty as a son, husband, father, nmothr, daughetr, and good realtive, freind or neighbour.and of course above all a real Guest. whoevr comes to our house to be treated as God. ATHITHI DEVO BHAVA. but many of US treat them a menace.I have
seen people thegreat ones who beleive that giving prayers is the best gifit toGod i ahveseen them while giving prayers for hours if somebody comes they just make them sit and wait for them till their prayers end . see no God willaccept yoru prayers if you really trouble your guest sitting there wiating for you impateintly tillyou finish your prayers,. real prayers are you stop your prayer and come and attend the guest if he is wiling let him wait or let him go and then continue your prayers.
[Intercession( meaning feelings for others) and thanks giving the true language of prayers.
people are surrounded by utter selfishness, my wife my chidlren nothing comes aboe
that. so some one comes to our house they treat their life has gone they r distuba
nces,. ..how can such peoples prayers reach God. I have seen people who take bath inthe early morning go to temple and prayfor a long time. it is diefinetely good. but most of thm i hve watched are not people who do good. theycheat people to make money. DOthey go to temple to cleanse their sin evryday are they take God as their saviour for their sins. of course going to temple everyday and todo more crimes.
who is a true baktha who seeks God ineverything who who does his maximum to keep everyone atleat those who are related and nearto him to be happy , do theor dury with a thankful attitude to God.
People might ask questions am I belong tothis group who does things exactly the way it should be. No. a BIg No. iam not a pure soul but i try to be a different person, a betterperson in the mass. whogive value to my own consiucous than anything else.i have seen people spending lakks on God the same pwople when approached by poor or needy shut their door. what is the use of their prayers.who blind themselves no tos ee that their loved ones r in trouble and insted ofreaching out to them goto God and spend there. lakh so
what is thereal prayer, charity and duty it is a fine mixture of everything. when i was inbed one of my freinds who was in real needn of money. i just accumulated the money which was given for my extra needs means juices. any outside food etc ijust gave it to myfrind who was in real need of money to pay her daughters fees and give milk to them. i stillhve that satisfaction. i belive itwas my prayer, charity and duty. when she was in search of job and had to spend a lot to get one i just postponed my renovation work for another year andgave that money to her to help her
toseek a job. i as a freind,it was my duty to reach out to her at tht time.
my wokr got delyed just one more year. i stillhave thesatisfaction that i helped somebody in need and that was my prayer, duty and charity though nobody knows it is we both know about that.
i know there may be people who laugh or make fun ,mock at me wrting this. i dont mind what makes me feeling good is that i am wrting the truth whoch anyone beleives or not remains the truth. and it reminds me again again to follow the right way. which iam trying hard to, still away from it. giving shelter to someone when needed, giving food to somone let it be a king but hungry .,.is a duty, charity and prayer.giving little happiness to anyone, reaching for little help to someone when needed is the greatest prayer..everyday even for small mercies like saving us from our dishes being overcooked or burnt i thank God, for saving me from a fall, i thnk god, for each day each breath i thnk God if we do likethat we are more closer to God than who goes to temple pray for hours and after that jut indluge in spoiling someones happiness or gossipsing, or making money by cheating the public.
how many of us ask ourselves how thank ful i should be to others those who r there to help us guide us to whtevr we aretoday. instead we ithink how thnkful shuld othrs to be to us.we are in a hurry to highlight others mistakes and areready to advice .i repeat iam ot a perfect one who jsut folows this. but sincerely want to follow the path of righteousness. each wordbefore sepaking we should think not to hurt others.
the most valid thngs inthe world is peace of mind andhappinesswhich cannotbe bought by coreers. but can be bought by simple smiles or simple sweet words. but we neverever have the right to spoil anyones mood by speaking harsh words. in this selfish world everywhere conditions apply. husband says if only youlook after me. wife says if only you looklafter me and my chidlren, and chidlren says whyshould we look after you? world has become selfish. i ahveseen earlier we used to get up when a n old lady or man comes inthe bus we used to get
up and give theseat to him. but today who bothers.a man whogets up give seat tothe old man or lady is the person who is doing thereal prayer than the one who sits thereand says i am doing my mantras and prayers dont discturb me icant getup.definetely his prayers are not going to reach the God.the manwho is so contented with what he has is the real riches than the one who hs crores but still unhappy and dissatisfied.
THESE ARE AS I SAID ARE THE COLLECTION OF IDEAS FROM VARIOUS SOURCES, THE BOOKS WHICH IREAD, SOPEECHES I HEARD AND known.
THAMASORMA JYOTHIRGAMAYA
ASATHOMA SATHGAMAYA
MRITHYOMA AMRITHAMGAMAYA.
LET THE DARKENSS FOF OUR HEART BE FILELD WITH LIGHT OF GOOD THOUGHTS AND DEEDS
LET THE DISHOSENTY PAVE WAY TO HONESTY AND SINCE RE LOVE, LET THE BAD KILLING ACTIONS BE TURN INTO LIFE GIVING ONES.
AND LET THE GOD SHOWS US THE RIGHT PATH AND GUIDE US TO GOODTHINGS.SO THAT WE MAKE OUR LIVING WORTH LVING FOR US AND ALLTHOSE WHO ARE CONNECTED TO US.
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
The Family
Hi
again a long gap in writing. there is a saying when you fall in love you see beauty in everything
and same way when you get hurt, that too by a loved one you become a writer hahahHow true.
why God has created people with such a poisionous mind. how could people think of spoiling somebdoys life.
then i remebred the story of Kaikeyi the character of Ramayan. see just her blind love towards her son made her so blind that she
didnt see the faces of lvoe around her. and her maid Mandhara didnt leave a chance to put poison into her mind..
see what happened to whom she did allthose things ,thesame son left her . she lost her husband and left with no one and yugas passed and we still call her as a cruel charcter bze of her blind love to her son which led to all disastetrs.
the nature' s law whatever goes out will come abck but in manifolds.nature rewards you liberally for your good deeds and punish you mercilessly for whatever bad you do.good people God give so many tests and they become strong with each adversity bad people even with a slightest
exertion lose theri balancne faltter and fall down. for the +ve and good one each advesity
make them strong and balanced and shows even oppertunity in adversity andfor the -ve ones even if oppertunity lies on theri hands they dont see it beze of the dirt.
when you get hurt you become a wrtier .see that is true in at least mycase.
i belong to such afamily where we give value to love and relation than money and anyother things try our best to be with our loved ones wheverthey need us., emotionally, physically or even financially .
but when we come to know that there are people who dosnt want this unity or they try level best to break this unity, and try to inject poison, i fear.and recall what happendedto kaikeyi. she became a cruel character and nothing To Ram and Seetha they are still Gods, worshipped by millions . I really fear is it going to be repeated.?
why why God people doesnt understand the natures law..We mallans beleive in building relationships not spoiling it or breaking it. but when we see manddharas and kaikeyis even in our family i fear God save us. saveus. why you test good people and why you let grwo these poisons,.
save everybody from poisionous people. and we dont want another kaikeyi to spoil everthing. ward off the evil eye.
and why dotn theyremeber the natures law whatevr they r doing their children willhave to suffer and the poison they r sending out if comes back, as per natures law where on earth will they hide their faces. where on earth they willget place to live. and enjoy peace of mind.
forgive them and enlighten then and show them the rightway guide them. forgive them consdiering as your own chidlren and refine them God this is my prayer to you.i know and trust you have faith in you you will definetely hear my prayers.
again a long gap in writing. there is a saying when you fall in love you see beauty in everything
and same way when you get hurt, that too by a loved one you become a writer hahahHow true.
why God has created people with such a poisionous mind. how could people think of spoiling somebdoys life.
then i remebred the story of Kaikeyi the character of Ramayan. see just her blind love towards her son made her so blind that she
didnt see the faces of lvoe around her. and her maid Mandhara didnt leave a chance to put poison into her mind..
see what happened to whom she did allthose things ,thesame son left her . she lost her husband and left with no one and yugas passed and we still call her as a cruel charcter bze of her blind love to her son which led to all disastetrs.
the nature' s law whatever goes out will come abck but in manifolds.nature rewards you liberally for your good deeds and punish you mercilessly for whatever bad you do.good people God give so many tests and they become strong with each adversity bad people even with a slightest
exertion lose theri balancne faltter and fall down. for the +ve and good one each advesity
make them strong and balanced and shows even oppertunity in adversity andfor the -ve ones even if oppertunity lies on theri hands they dont see it beze of the dirt.
when you get hurt you become a wrtier .see that is true in at least mycase.
i belong to such afamily where we give value to love and relation than money and anyother things try our best to be with our loved ones wheverthey need us., emotionally, physically or even financially .
but when we come to know that there are people who dosnt want this unity or they try level best to break this unity, and try to inject poison, i fear.and recall what happendedto kaikeyi. she became a cruel character and nothing To Ram and Seetha they are still Gods, worshipped by millions . I really fear is it going to be repeated.?
why why God people doesnt understand the natures law..We mallans beleive in building relationships not spoiling it or breaking it. but when we see manddharas and kaikeyis even in our family i fear God save us. saveus. why you test good people and why you let grwo these poisons,.
save everybody from poisionous people. and we dont want another kaikeyi to spoil everthing. ward off the evil eye.
and why dotn theyremeber the natures law whatevr they r doing their children willhave to suffer and the poison they r sending out if comes back, as per natures law where on earth will they hide their faces. where on earth they willget place to live. and enjoy peace of mind.
forgive them and enlighten then and show them the rightway guide them. forgive them consdiering as your own chidlren and refine them God this is my prayer to you.i know and trust you have faith in you you will definetely hear my prayers.
Thursday, May 7, 2009
My defintion of life and understandings
My definition of life and self understanding.
it is quiet a long time since i have written something in my blog. so ithougt today my first prefrence is to my self i mean to my blog.
i always wonder whther life is precious or not.and how we can have life in life. the life wht i mean is notmere survival or existence to live it fully fruitfully.
life it happens only if we take the inititative. and it improves when we take our lives into our hands than living upto others expectations.
if making our life a better one it is our goal then it is neither too easy notr difficult it is noteasily attainable nor elusive. it is easy provided we ready to put in efforts.
oppertunity is nothing but a chance life gives us many times to change ourselves, our dreams, our characters the way we live andsee thingstochange our health o ur personality etc etc.
first we have to take the firststep it is always verydifficult to take the firststep once you take the 1st step the second and third just follows.
e when i just get carreid away with my problmes or worries and too much obseessed withthem iam confining my vision to my own self.
when i feel oppressed i used to tell myself. How many other woman hve had the chances to live the life which i had?how many of them have exereiced the things which i have expreinced? may be soem good some bad. but all those have made me abeter
person mor tough mor eunderstadning more emotional maturity? sself udnerstadign and applying empathy ahve helped me to love people with more sincerity my love goes more cosmic then jut confine to my own family. it is all godo thaht happendned to me.these all made me deeply understand the vlues of life
what made me a better person inside. see ourlife teh trick is to play them very well.
self understddning is the firststep to anykind of successful Goal.which we call "emotional maturity' it is a learning process and intellectual and emotional sequence of growth. actually almost everythig we in ourday today life invloves learning of some kind.if theleanring is not followed by udnertanding
then we can never change.frist we hve to accept ourselves respect ourselves,t ehn we can accept and respect others.if we just change our behoaviour and not feelings then basically we willnever change. the change should come from deep within. and so naturally that we without our consccious doesnthigns so automatically
we encountr difficulties when we try to change the modes of conduct.
we learned in chidlhood theyseems right to us. some people find it verydifficult to change themselves nomatter the whole world tell them or all logic tells them.the more importannt our behavviour appears to us the more sturrgle we have to change our behaviour.
self understadning is liike swimming in the cold water. first you put toe and say it is cold and we go back to dry place but some continue teheir journey inspite of cold or all unfavourable conditions. they succeed in life/an it give them greter happiness and satisfaction in life.
it really involves some risk, some frustration andsome discomfort.
but once you reach the destination or achieve the goal no looking back.
we have illogical logic to support that we are right. and what we are today very muchrelated to wht we were and howwere in thepast.
but understanding ourselves is ofeten condtioned upon our ability to find such keys in the past which explain our behaviour today.the fears bad experiences gve us so much fear that inside we always fear its recurrence. the need nfor self realisation is very much needed.and the - ve emotions we all develop is anxiety
which really kills oureffciency nd creativity. see we human beinga have social responsibilites familyresponsibilitea and we have responsibilites towards us alo.
we have to give each a share. of our time and energy.
when we say people do notlike us. acrtually we dont like the people.
if we change we cansee people love us and we love people,.
and see i have nticed in any theway we react or behve to our children or spouses r very much influenced by theway we grew.it is often influenced by ourparents .
now iam concluding and i know it is not completed and i willcome out with more points very soon.
it is quiet a long time since i have written something in my blog. so ithougt today my first prefrence is to my self i mean to my blog.
i always wonder whther life is precious or not.and how we can have life in life. the life wht i mean is notmere survival or existence to live it fully fruitfully.
life it happens only if we take the inititative. and it improves when we take our lives into our hands than living upto others expectations.
if making our life a better one it is our goal then it is neither too easy notr difficult it is noteasily attainable nor elusive. it is easy provided we ready to put in efforts.
oppertunity is nothing but a chance life gives us many times to change ourselves, our dreams, our characters the way we live andsee thingstochange our health o ur personality etc etc.
first we have to take the firststep it is always verydifficult to take the firststep once you take the 1st step the second and third just follows.
e when i just get carreid away with my problmes or worries and too much obseessed withthem iam confining my vision to my own self.
when i feel oppressed i used to tell myself. How many other woman hve had the chances to live the life which i had?how many of them have exereiced the things which i have expreinced? may be soem good some bad. but all those have made me abeter
person mor tough mor eunderstadning more emotional maturity? sself udnerstadign and applying empathy ahve helped me to love people with more sincerity my love goes more cosmic then jut confine to my own family. it is all godo thaht happendned to me.these all made me deeply understand the vlues of life
what made me a better person inside. see ourlife teh trick is to play them very well.
self understddning is the firststep to anykind of successful Goal.which we call "emotional maturity' it is a learning process and intellectual and emotional sequence of growth. actually almost everythig we in ourday today life invloves learning of some kind.if theleanring is not followed by udnertanding
then we can never change.frist we hve to accept ourselves respect ourselves,t ehn we can accept and respect others.if we just change our behoaviour and not feelings then basically we willnever change. the change should come from deep within. and so naturally that we without our consccious doesnthigns so automatically
we encountr difficulties when we try to change the modes of conduct.
we learned in chidlhood theyseems right to us. some people find it verydifficult to change themselves nomatter the whole world tell them or all logic tells them.the more importannt our behavviour appears to us the more sturrgle we have to change our behaviour.
self understadning is liike swimming in the cold water. first you put toe and say it is cold and we go back to dry place but some continue teheir journey inspite of cold or all unfavourable conditions. they succeed in life/an it give them greter happiness and satisfaction in life.
it really involves some risk, some frustration andsome discomfort.
but once you reach the destination or achieve the goal no looking back.
we have illogical logic to support that we are right. and what we are today very muchrelated to wht we were and howwere in thepast.
but understanding ourselves is ofeten condtioned upon our ability to find such keys in the past which explain our behaviour today.the fears bad experiences gve us so much fear that inside we always fear its recurrence. the need nfor self realisation is very much needed.and the - ve emotions we all develop is anxiety
which really kills oureffciency nd creativity. see we human beinga have social responsibilites familyresponsibilitea and we have responsibilites towards us alo.
we have to give each a share. of our time and energy.
when we say people do notlike us. acrtually we dont like the people.
if we change we cansee people love us and we love people,.
and see i have nticed in any theway we react or behve to our children or spouses r very much influenced by theway we grew.it is often influenced by ourparents .
now iam concluding and i know it is not completed and i willcome out with more points very soon.
Monday, February 9, 2009
The Magic Man of my Life
For evry girl her marriage is a second birth to her. For some it brings allthe good things in life and for some it brings just the opposite. i got married when i was studying in college , iwas doing my Masters Degree in History. It allhappend so fast that i couldnt belive my life is going to change and going to take a u turn.. But fortunately God has given me one of the best husbands in the world. in this occasion of we celeberate our 25th wedding anniversay a deep dive back into the past is necessary. There were thorns as well as flowers. who wants to pick up thorns nobody. i justwant to pick up the beautiful flowers which gave fragrancne and enhanced the beauty of my garden of life..naturally the credit should go to the man who was responsible for that. so in this occassion of our 25th wedding anniversary what could be the best gift than these lines which i write here with the pen of love filled with the ink of heart. since he is a man whodoesnt give value to material things i thought this could be the best gift one could possibly opt for. the artist of the present me,the magic man behind the scene .
The skyy was vaccant the moon was lonely
thesun was cluded
the mind was lonely and soul was vaccuam
then suddenl;y everything changed
you came as a spring and filled the vaccuam with warmth
the barren land became a beautifyul garden of flowers
and sky became brigthen with twinkling stars
sun started brightening than ever before
moonwas filled with golden light
I atill cherish the moment we met the first time
though the 4 letters didnt happen at the first sight
but a glee of happiness you gve me
and brghtened my lonely life
i was wondering who would be the man whom i love like anything
how and when he will come to my life God knows
whe n we met you might have fell in love with me but to me you were a stranger
youwere not so assuming but you have a rare stuff which seperatded you from others
you have touched my heart and soul
i felt as if mydremas r going to come true'
you have a ray of speciality
that is your sincerity and warmth
your devotions towards yourparents made me bit jealous
but i started adoring you you r a man of dignity in simplicity
slowly i felt i can count on you'
i never fell headover heals in love with you
the lvoe developed slowly when i started knowing you
i know ican laugh and cry as naturally as i can with my own soul
ican more honesly and transperantly show my feelings to you
i knowyou can accept me as iam you wanted me to expereince , choose and
decide for myself you were always a pillar of strength to me
you became a God given gift to me
you became a model husband to me' i know you r not a dream man
you have yourown + and -s but still i loved you
i started knowing your passions your dreams and your desires
your wishes became my command
but i felt sometimes you r a mystery a fathomless mystery
understanding you is bit difficult.
you started giving me all that i have lost in my childhood
you were a fathr to me and treated me like a child
you were a bit rough and tough type so i took it as a challenge to change you
with my love and care and tried to become a dutiful wife toyou
you became so supple that i could mould you to a more refined and fine shape
and you became a soft hearted loving one by dropping a lot of your infalted ego.
oi came to know what lvoe means and even the pain
in love is a sweet one
i spent day in and day out with the thoughts full of you
and youeven filled my breath by your thoughts
slowly i became an extended pesonality of you'
we sta rted thinking the same way and slowly i realised ican't live without you
i wrote - you read
i spoke- you listend
i felt- you realised
we decied to travel together the journey of life
let what may come we will be together as if one soul and2 body
let it be ups and downs let it be sun or rain let it be
spring or drought we will be together to stand and willbe each
others pillar of
strength
how could i ever put my feelings in words as
what the deepest that heart feels
how can mere words reveal
you showed me the rainbow ; the rainbow or our love which has 7 emotions
faith trust care, love, duty, beauty and happiness.wthese7 emtions
make our rainbow
there is a special bond which keeps us close that is the bond
of love duty and sincerity
i dont say you hve everythig that a hunband should have
but you have so many things which a human beings should have
sudenly life has become bit dull except yourlove
life became dull and i felt as if iam deprived with the fulfillement
i prayed God to makemy life more colourful beze we lacked
soemthing so important we might have spent years
all alone just loving each other but tried to hide our sorrow thedeepest longing
from each other and showed each other a simling face
'but inside we knew we were weeping
suddenly may be years after God has heard our prayers and gifted us with a tiny tot]
who has changed everything and gave a special meaning to our life
again the garden of life has filled with so many coulrful flowers
but God when starts giving there is no end
wished for one but God gave two, two gems of children has
filled our life with so much of happiness and satsifaction'
we just startd our journey in adifferent style
thegreat joy the wonderment of an unknown realam,
the splenders of the vast future lie in the eternal
tomorrow but i know with you your support love andcare i can take anyting in
my stride andcan make the life worth living
In this occassion, of we celeberate our 25th wedding anniversay whtelse can i give you, i know you dont have any appetive
for material things so i thought this could be best gift ican ever offer you
beze it is my heart taken out. beze you r not a cultured pearl you are a real pearl. you made me the Queen
of my kingdom without the burden of the crown
Hope you will love this. and gratitude is the mark of heart and i reveal the feeling of gratitude to you
for giving me somuch which i have never dreamt of and a Big thanks to you for being the Magic man to me. your magic has changed my world and given birth to anew ME.
Iam dedicating this to my husband , there is so much towrite but as i said mere words can put thereal feeling of heart into words.
The skyy was vaccant the moon was lonely
thesun was cluded
the mind was lonely and soul was vaccuam
then suddenl;y everything changed
you came as a spring and filled the vaccuam with warmth
the barren land became a beautifyul garden of flowers
and sky became brigthen with twinkling stars
sun started brightening than ever before
moonwas filled with golden light
I atill cherish the moment we met the first time
though the 4 letters didnt happen at the first sight
but a glee of happiness you gve me
and brghtened my lonely life
i was wondering who would be the man whom i love like anything
how and when he will come to my life God knows
whe n we met you might have fell in love with me but to me you were a stranger
youwere not so assuming but you have a rare stuff which seperatded you from others
you have touched my heart and soul
i felt as if mydremas r going to come true'
you have a ray of speciality
that is your sincerity and warmth
your devotions towards yourparents made me bit jealous
but i started adoring you you r a man of dignity in simplicity
slowly i felt i can count on you'
i never fell headover heals in love with you
the lvoe developed slowly when i started knowing you
i know ican laugh and cry as naturally as i can with my own soul
ican more honesly and transperantly show my feelings to you
i knowyou can accept me as iam you wanted me to expereince , choose and
decide for myself you were always a pillar of strength to me
you became a God given gift to me
you became a model husband to me' i know you r not a dream man
you have yourown + and -s but still i loved you
i started knowing your passions your dreams and your desires
your wishes became my command
but i felt sometimes you r a mystery a fathomless mystery
understanding you is bit difficult.
you started giving me all that i have lost in my childhood
you were a fathr to me and treated me like a child
you were a bit rough and tough type so i took it as a challenge to change you
with my love and care and tried to become a dutiful wife toyou
you became so supple that i could mould you to a more refined and fine shape
and you became a soft hearted loving one by dropping a lot of your infalted ego.
oi came to know what lvoe means and even the pain
in love is a sweet one
i spent day in and day out with the thoughts full of you
and youeven filled my breath by your thoughts
slowly i became an extended pesonality of you'
we sta rted thinking the same way and slowly i realised ican't live without you
i wrote - you read
i spoke- you listend
i felt- you realised
we decied to travel together the journey of life
let what may come we will be together as if one soul and2 body
let it be ups and downs let it be sun or rain let it be
spring or drought we will be together to stand and willbe each
others pillar of
strength
how could i ever put my feelings in words as
what the deepest that heart feels
how can mere words reveal
you showed me the rainbow ; the rainbow or our love which has 7 emotions
faith trust care, love, duty, beauty and happiness.wthese7 emtions
make our rainbow
there is a special bond which keeps us close that is the bond
of love duty and sincerity
i dont say you hve everythig that a hunband should have
but you have so many things which a human beings should have
sudenly life has become bit dull except yourlove
life became dull and i felt as if iam deprived with the fulfillement
i prayed God to makemy life more colourful beze we lacked
soemthing so important we might have spent years
all alone just loving each other but tried to hide our sorrow thedeepest longing
from each other and showed each other a simling face
'but inside we knew we were weeping
suddenly may be years after God has heard our prayers and gifted us with a tiny tot]
who has changed everything and gave a special meaning to our life
again the garden of life has filled with so many coulrful flowers
but God when starts giving there is no end
wished for one but God gave two, two gems of children has
filled our life with so much of happiness and satsifaction'
we just startd our journey in adifferent style
thegreat joy the wonderment of an unknown realam,
the splenders of the vast future lie in the eternal
tomorrow but i know with you your support love andcare i can take anyting in
my stride andcan make the life worth living
In this occassion, of we celeberate our 25th wedding anniversay whtelse can i give you, i know you dont have any appetive
for material things so i thought this could be best gift ican ever offer you
beze it is my heart taken out. beze you r not a cultured pearl you are a real pearl. you made me the Queen
of my kingdom without the burden of the crown
Hope you will love this. and gratitude is the mark of heart and i reveal the feeling of gratitude to you
for giving me somuch which i have never dreamt of and a Big thanks to you for being the Magic man to me. your magic has changed my world and given birth to anew ME.
Iam dedicating this to my husband , there is so much towrite but as i said mere words can put thereal feeling of heart into words.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
YOU R A FATHOM LESS MYSTERY
I haven't written much about myfamily or about myself here. since i know .,hardly anyne is interested in reading about my own history. but something is there which is worth mentioning. one such factor was we mallans( our surname) r very attached to each other,. i mean we 5 children and their children. which i beleive is the greatest asset of we mallans. which really play as a booster in times of adversity, since I lost my parents at a very early age iwas looked after by my brothers and their children were so dear to us. we all grew together like onefamily theywere more attached to us than totheir parents. we loved them like abything. we never expected that one day thse children will return their lvoe in many folds. In this selfish world you cant even expect from your own children it is a rare fortune to get it from the neice and nephew. Iwas one among th luckiest who really had the great oppertunity to get it from my nephew and niece. they really were with me still r with me, to support me . so Thnks to God for giving such good chidlren in ourfamily so that we can pass on such culture to our chidlren. they accepted whoever came new to our family like my husband they accepted him whole heartedly and showered their love to him. though he is bit stingy in showing lvoe i mean expressions but has it in his heart. we also loved their spouses. so is the binding in our family. we never have the poision of jealousy we always wish good toeachother and happy in their growth. i can say iam one step ahead in getting love even from the sistrs in law who love me like anything. and i reciprocate it . pray to God any evil eye , pleas e ward it off, before it falls on us. so here iam going towrite soemthing about such a nephew . these r my own words he may or may not fit into this. but since they r our children i feel i have evey right to write about them . beze they know we never wish any bad for them.
You r a fathomless mystery
came to mallan family as a morning star
we sang the song of joywhen you first came as ababy
we hahd a fight to pamper you
now you r grwon up and you r abook of fathomless mystery
but we try my not be in vein todescribe you,
you r a book full of fictions and humours and lvoe
the simple book iswritten with the ink of love
the pages r crytal clear cover is plain and simple
we bind the book not with the glue of the tube but with the love
beze the book touches the heart of the reader
and heart knows only one language the language of lvoe
you never used the logic of the brain to wirte the book
but icant understand why you left some pages blank. oh i forgot it isnot blank it is written withthesame coulr ink so thatno on ca read it other than you
tough the book is simple even the wisest of the wisest cant read it, but a child with love can read and understand.
all the + and - are there in you, soyour a fine blend of both
but you no how to tactfully balnce and manage you -ses
for the mallns and their children your the king figure and your dear sister
is thequeen both of you knowhow to rule the mallsninto good things
you both make themallns la ugh and climb the uphill, tire out , sweat,
but the end . you make them stronger than before.
You r a person dont mind disturbing others , if you want them. but sacrifice anything if they want you,
you r a Big brother to all mallns children a figure to be observed and followed
you r a fine blend of innocence and cunning .
since the main ingredient is love your bad can be forseen or overlooked.
i find it difficult to put you in words, beze your simple
but a fathomless mystery
your r good boss to your subordinates, you know
how to get things done by them.
you knowwhat to do when things starts slipping from yourhands or
some gap forms . you knowhow to fill it with your own way of handling
you r mallan product know how to tackle children and how to
to rise the sagging spirit of the nmalln s with your magic spell, beze
you r a person who doesnt like commotion and confusion in the family
you r not a wolf in the clothings of the sheep.,rather
a sheep or a lamb in the wolfs clothing, why beze
peole think that you r very tough and rude
but thefact is that you can be twisted around the little finger
just with a drop of love and care
beze your a slave of love andcare
a lamb can be tamed without a stick , just with a loud voice
so is you.
you r the 7 swaras of mallans instrument
want to give the best melody
we know that you r bit stingy but can be forgiven and forgotten
since you r + s out shine your -ves.
your a simple book of love and care and evryone
wantns to keep it in their shelf of heart but fear a lot
let not the silverfish of greed and selfishness eat you hope and pray
never evr the selfish world or the increasing bank balance change you
if at all change you for the betterment of evryone,
beze you are a book hard to be lost or cant afford to be lost
let not the outside polluted weather touch you and make you dirty
let not the grwoing age make you selfish, beze you r a book of love with a difference.
which all mallns want to decorate their bookshelf with you.
Let God bless you and give you strength enough to face the channlenges and
sense enoughto tackle them successfuly.
******* ******* ******** *********
You r a fathomless mystery
came to mallan family as a morning star
we sang the song of joywhen you first came as ababy
we hahd a fight to pamper you
now you r grwon up and you r abook of fathomless mystery
but we try my not be in vein todescribe you,
you r a book full of fictions and humours and lvoe
the simple book iswritten with the ink of love
the pages r crytal clear cover is plain and simple
we bind the book not with the glue of the tube but with the love
beze the book touches the heart of the reader
and heart knows only one language the language of lvoe
you never used the logic of the brain to wirte the book
but icant understand why you left some pages blank. oh i forgot it isnot blank it is written withthesame coulr ink so thatno on ca read it other than you
tough the book is simple even the wisest of the wisest cant read it, but a child with love can read and understand.
all the + and - are there in you, soyour a fine blend of both
but you no how to tactfully balnce and manage you -ses
for the mallns and their children your the king figure and your dear sister
is thequeen both of you knowhow to rule the mallsninto good things
you both make themallns la ugh and climb the uphill, tire out , sweat,
but the end . you make them stronger than before.
You r a person dont mind disturbing others , if you want them. but sacrifice anything if they want you,
you r a Big brother to all mallns children a figure to be observed and followed
you r a fine blend of innocence and cunning .
since the main ingredient is love your bad can be forseen or overlooked.
i find it difficult to put you in words, beze your simple
but a fathomless mystery
your r good boss to your subordinates, you know
how to get things done by them.
you knowwhat to do when things starts slipping from yourhands or
some gap forms . you knowhow to fill it with your own way of handling
you r mallan product know how to tackle children and how to
to rise the sagging spirit of the nmalln s with your magic spell, beze
you r a person who doesnt like commotion and confusion in the family
you r not a wolf in the clothings of the sheep.,rather
a sheep or a lamb in the wolfs clothing, why beze
peole think that you r very tough and rude
but thefact is that you can be twisted around the little finger
just with a drop of love and care
beze your a slave of love andcare
a lamb can be tamed without a stick , just with a loud voice
so is you.
you r the 7 swaras of mallans instrument
want to give the best melody
we know that you r bit stingy but can be forgiven and forgotten
since you r + s out shine your -ves.
your a simple book of love and care and evryone
wantns to keep it in their shelf of heart but fear a lot
let not the silverfish of greed and selfishness eat you hope and pray
never evr the selfish world or the increasing bank balance change you
if at all change you for the betterment of evryone,
beze you are a book hard to be lost or cant afford to be lost
let not the outside polluted weather touch you and make you dirty
let not the grwoing age make you selfish, beze you r a book of love with a difference.
which all mallns want to decorate their bookshelf with you.
Let God bless you and give you strength enough to face the channlenges and
sense enoughto tackle them successfuly.
******* ******* ******** *********
Monday, January 19, 2009
ANGER ONE LETTER SHORT OF DANGER
ANGER ONE LETTR SHORT OF DANGER
What is anger my definitin is the worst - emotion which makes us blind, which makes us take wrong decisons, which make us
pour allour frustration and disappointment to the other. what not it makes people to do ,kill the other. Can anything be as danegerous as anger.
but how many of us think tht it is so dnagerous. none of us.
just a self anlysis willtellus many a times we get frustrated of many othr things and we simply pour or spring on ouur beloved ones,. some to their chidlren some to their parents and some
to even their husbands, provided their husbands r patient enough.
just see scientifically what happens when we get anmgry. we need 14 muscles to smali but to frown we need 72. our body becmoes a chemical lab. the danegerous hormone is produced by the body which kills the harmony of the body. we strain our muscles. Bad news for shortempered ladies. you gt wrinkles fast. every time youget angry youstrain yourmuscles,. i mean the facial muscles one crease is formed
sometimes our furious outbursts come as blasts,snaps we lash out we smash and throw awaythings. we scold or shower whatever we get .our bodies stiffing until we stop. another kind of anger is silent it is within. bottling up rage inside is more dangerious. on going suppressessd rage is the basis of manyillness as hyper tension,. strokeks, migraine,back pain etc.
There is aniother kidof anger internalised anger it is the deadliest form of angr that is
directd towards us. feeling of resentment , frustrationand self=loathing are created whe we live inenviornment thatrepeatedly telluas we are bad wrong no good etc. . chidlrennshoud nevr feel that they r bad, good for nothing . reopeated feeling of this willmake them vulnerable and they develp comples and they develop akin dof shortemper..It should be counter balannend by constructive thoughts and cmmnets.. sjust imagine wwhat allwordswe use when we gt anger .
all the bad words killing words come to out tongue we use it liberally. never thinking whaht the othr person feel. we feel tht we rperfect. hwen we normally get angry whenthe other person dosnt act according to our expectations, or we get disppointment. so we just bale many a times others for our own faults.nevr thinkinghow it affects the othr person. wht is going on intheir mind,. dont they have any individuality. do we rise uto others exoectation everytime. dont we do mistake.
is it necesaary to show our frastration through anger only is there no way out? you can ask youself 100 questions before get angry.
a small remedy when next time yougt angry count 1 to 10by the timeyu reach 10 you r angr musthave reduced. good idea?alwlays remebr anger is a poision it kills the vessel it carrys.any body can get angry with anyone. but showing integrity patience is a tough job only people with strong mind can do. so decide wheter you r a fickle minded one so fragile? or a strong minded one.do youwant to become the victim of anger or do you want to make it a victim. decision is yours.
What is anger my definitin is the worst - emotion which makes us blind, which makes us take wrong decisons, which make us
pour allour frustration and disappointment to the other. what not it makes people to do ,kill the other. Can anything be as danegerous as anger.
but how many of us think tht it is so dnagerous. none of us.
just a self anlysis willtellus many a times we get frustrated of many othr things and we simply pour or spring on ouur beloved ones,. some to their chidlren some to their parents and some
to even their husbands, provided their husbands r patient enough.
just see scientifically what happens when we get anmgry. we need 14 muscles to smali but to frown we need 72. our body becmoes a chemical lab. the danegerous hormone is produced by the body which kills the harmony of the body. we strain our muscles. Bad news for shortempered ladies. you gt wrinkles fast. every time youget angry youstrain yourmuscles,. i mean the facial muscles one crease is formed
sometimes our furious outbursts come as blasts,snaps we lash out we smash and throw awaythings. we scold or shower whatever we get .our bodies stiffing until we stop. another kind of anger is silent it is within. bottling up rage inside is more dangerious. on going suppressessd rage is the basis of manyillness as hyper tension,. strokeks, migraine,back pain etc.
There is aniother kidof anger internalised anger it is the deadliest form of angr that is
directd towards us. feeling of resentment , frustrationand self=loathing are created whe we live inenviornment thatrepeatedly telluas we are bad wrong no good etc. . chidlrennshoud nevr feel that they r bad, good for nothing . reopeated feeling of this willmake them vulnerable and they develp comples and they develop akin dof shortemper..It should be counter balannend by constructive thoughts and cmmnets.. sjust imagine wwhat allwordswe use when we gt anger .
all the bad words killing words come to out tongue we use it liberally. never thinking whaht the othr person feel. we feel tht we rperfect. hwen we normally get angry whenthe other person dosnt act according to our expectations, or we get disppointment. so we just bale many a times others for our own faults.nevr thinkinghow it affects the othr person. wht is going on intheir mind,. dont they have any individuality. do we rise uto others exoectation everytime. dont we do mistake.
is it necesaary to show our frastration through anger only is there no way out? you can ask youself 100 questions before get angry.
a small remedy when next time yougt angry count 1 to 10by the timeyu reach 10 you r angr musthave reduced. good idea?alwlays remebr anger is a poision it kills the vessel it carrys.any body can get angry with anyone. but showing integrity patience is a tough job only people with strong mind can do. so decide wheter you r a fickle minded one so fragile? or a strong minded one.do youwant to become the victim of anger or do you want to make it a victim. decision is yours.
Saturday, January 17, 2009
ways to eradicate the killing fears
Fear the killing fear youcome unwanted
you make the shadow a ghost,you
make thecoir a snake,
and you make a mole hill a mountain..,
your like a magnifying glass show the
bad things much larger than they actually r.
Why do we fear ? we are too accustomed to our present situation and habitis that any thought of changingthem or anychange in our dear ones cannot be toleratd by us. so we fear a lot. Healthy fear is good it makes us plan for our future and keep us disciplined in many things,. but when it crosses all limits it becomes, unhalthy. and tht is dangerous.which is called a disease or phobia. Indecison crystalizes into doubts the two belnd and become fear. If you see a tiger andfear thatisfear. but you dont see a tiger and still freightened then it is anxiety. healthyfear make youcautious and you plan. but unhealthy fear makes you paralyzed and drain your +ve energy.
Lack of faith also leads to fear. To work on fear we should 1st know its origin ,nature, and the place of abode.
There are 6 basic fears. Fear of poverty, criticism, illhealth, loss of love of someone, oldage, and fear of death. It is nothing more thanthestate of mind. and it is subjectot control. If we work o n it evry human being can control his own mind. A state of mind is somthing that one assumes. It is created Fear paralyses and destroys faculty of imagination, creativity kills self reliancne undermines enthusiasm, leads to uncertainty of purpose encourages procrastination self/ control becmoes impossibility somepeople just creates and imagine worst situations for them and their fear. Heart beats rises , palpitaionand body becomes a chemical lab. It destroys the possibility of accurate thinking, will power becmoes zero. leads to sleeplessness and misery and unhappiness.
How to fight. cross examine yourself you know more about youself.Be impartial in self examination. If asked people say " I fear nothing" few people realize that they are handicapped spritualy, enmotionly& one may spend whole life without knowing its presence. only a self analysis will help us to detect this unique enemy.
Worrying habit, in ability to take a firm decison, lack of self conscious ,over cautious the habit of looking for . side of everything always.
Fear of ill health breakdown natural body resisitence and creates favourable condition for any form of disease one can imagine . make susceptable for that,. Fear of losing love or loved ones is the most painful one. It plays havoc with the body and mind,. than any other fear. Jealousy possessiveness suspecion, fault finding et etc are the symptoms. Whip the fear of poverty by taking a decison oto get along with whatever we can accumulate.and to accpet whateveron the way tomcome.
Fear of crticism put your foot firmly on theneck of fear of criticism by reaching a decion : Not to worry" about whatothers think oooor feelsboutyou GFear of uill halth by reaching a decion of self sffirmation,. if iworry i willgetmore disease binghappy will free from disease and iamginina ahealthy you whever annnnnnd whereve [ppssoble.
fear of old age tellyourself andfeel thatyour always young. fear of losing loved one. no one iseternal. dont Binding is an illusiion we aall r gods children we have to pray God to keepeeryone in tact.
'
too uch fear willenup in worrying habit abnd willlead to stress. 75% of the people who visits physicians are suffereing from hypo chondria( imaginanry Disease) The fear of disease ,even where there isnot a slighterst cause of disease , often produces thephysical symptoms of the disease. your mind creates it,. artificially.
The seed of fear of illhealth lives in every human mind, worry fear discouragement disappointment in love and business caue the seed tio germinate and grow in your mind.. so wehve nip it in the bud. before itcreates problem and becmoes a tree we hve to wipe itout. by installing faith faith in god faith in our own self etc. wehve to force ourmind to think +vely and neveraloow any fear crating thughts enter yourmind. we hve to free ourselves from the clutches of the fear.we have to read brave peoples history, how they survived odd situations. . How people wihout money health , have survided and marked their names in thepages of history How people with just mind powerlived years under stressed situations. when weread we will come to know we fearunnecessrily. we fear or not wht is on the wway to come will come anyway. then why fear and drain our +ve energy. fearless tomorrow is impossible we need littlefear to makeus more courageous. but fearfull tomorrow we dontwant.
you make the shadow a ghost,you
make thecoir a snake,
and you make a mole hill a mountain..,
your like a magnifying glass show the
bad things much larger than they actually r.
Why do we fear ? we are too accustomed to our present situation and habitis that any thought of changingthem or anychange in our dear ones cannot be toleratd by us. so we fear a lot. Healthy fear is good it makes us plan for our future and keep us disciplined in many things,. but when it crosses all limits it becomes, unhalthy. and tht is dangerous.which is called a disease or phobia. Indecison crystalizes into doubts the two belnd and become fear. If you see a tiger andfear thatisfear. but you dont see a tiger and still freightened then it is anxiety. healthyfear make youcautious and you plan. but unhealthy fear makes you paralyzed and drain your +ve energy.
Lack of faith also leads to fear. To work on fear we should 1st know its origin ,nature, and the place of abode.
There are 6 basic fears. Fear of poverty, criticism, illhealth, loss of love of someone, oldage, and fear of death. It is nothing more thanthestate of mind. and it is subjectot control. If we work o n it evry human being can control his own mind. A state of mind is somthing that one assumes. It is created Fear paralyses and destroys faculty of imagination, creativity kills self reliancne undermines enthusiasm, leads to uncertainty of purpose encourages procrastination self/ control becmoes impossibility somepeople just creates and imagine worst situations for them and their fear. Heart beats rises , palpitaionand body becomes a chemical lab. It destroys the possibility of accurate thinking, will power becmoes zero. leads to sleeplessness and misery and unhappiness.
How to fight. cross examine yourself you know more about youself.Be impartial in self examination. If asked people say " I fear nothing" few people realize that they are handicapped spritualy, enmotionly& one may spend whole life without knowing its presence. only a self analysis will help us to detect this unique enemy.
Worrying habit, in ability to take a firm decison, lack of self conscious ,over cautious the habit of looking for . side of everything always.
Fear of ill health breakdown natural body resisitence and creates favourable condition for any form of disease one can imagine . make susceptable for that,. Fear of losing love or loved ones is the most painful one. It plays havoc with the body and mind,. than any other fear. Jealousy possessiveness suspecion, fault finding et etc are the symptoms. Whip the fear of poverty by taking a decison oto get along with whatever we can accumulate.and to accpet whateveron the way tomcome.
Fear of crticism put your foot firmly on theneck of fear of criticism by reaching a decion : Not to worry" about whatothers think oooor feelsboutyou GFear of uill halth by reaching a decion of self sffirmation,. if iworry i willgetmore disease binghappy will free from disease and iamginina ahealthy you whever annnnnnd whereve [ppssoble.
fear of old age tellyourself andfeel thatyour always young. fear of losing loved one. no one iseternal. dont Binding is an illusiion we aall r gods children we have to pray God to keepeeryone in tact.
'
too uch fear willenup in worrying habit abnd willlead to stress. 75% of the people who visits physicians are suffereing from hypo chondria( imaginanry Disease) The fear of disease ,even where there isnot a slighterst cause of disease , often produces thephysical symptoms of the disease. your mind creates it,. artificially.
The seed of fear of illhealth lives in every human mind, worry fear discouragement disappointment in love and business caue the seed tio germinate and grow in your mind.. so wehve nip it in the bud. before itcreates problem and becmoes a tree we hve to wipe itout. by installing faith faith in god faith in our own self etc. wehve to force ourmind to think +vely and neveraloow any fear crating thughts enter yourmind. we hve to free ourselves from the clutches of the fear.we have to read brave peoples history, how they survived odd situations. . How people wihout money health , have survided and marked their names in thepages of history How people with just mind powerlived years under stressed situations. when weread we will come to know we fearunnecessrily. we fear or not wht is on the wway to come will come anyway. then why fear and drain our +ve energy. fearless tomorrow is impossible we need littlefear to makeus more courageous. but fearfull tomorrow we dontwant.
Monday, January 12, 2009
One step more towards perfection
why women suffer alot ? why some womeen spend their entire life nagging? blamingothers for their fate these r the questions i always ask myself when i see such kind of wome.n In my life fortunately ihad the oppertunity to interact with all sorts of women high, law, reputed, prefessionalist, high society ladies , writers the list goes on. In a short span of 10 years i hve met diffrent tyes of peole and interactd withthem and leanrt a lot of things fromthem. This allhelped me to judge people fast.. I hvhe seen many women despite their qualities and high standard leads alife of agony and self pity. my analysis ended with somesolotuions and i have read a lots of books on this regard what can be doneto improve the quality of life. of course quantity is not in ourhands. duration is not imporantant donation is important. WOMAN THE GREATEST CREATION OF GOD
SUCH A BEAUTIFUL ONE
WHO IS THE MOTHER OF MANKIND
WHO IS FRAGRANCE OF THE FLOWER OF LIFE,
WHO IS THE SPRING OF LIFE.
BUT SUFFERES LIKE ANYTHING
WHO TEACHES THE MAN THE FIRST WORD,
WHO TEACHES THE MAN FIRST STEP
WHO TEACHES HIM HOW TO LOVE
WHO TEACHES HIMHOW TO STAND OF HIS OWN
WHO IS HIS FIRST TEACHER, GUIDE, MENTOR AND WORLD
BUT WHY SHE SUFFERS WHY SHE IS PAIN ?
wHY SHE FEELS HER DREAMS ARE SMASHED?
You can define a woa\man as giver she give a lot than takes from you She born as daughter grow as somebodys asset, beze from child hood she is trAined to be lived with other person or other familys .,as if she is given to her parents to be lookkd after for few years s, till she is capable of taking responsibilty of the family the man . so shestart getting the training from the v ery childhood. though she was given good food , good education it is all to make her capable of looking after the family she is going to be. she also start weaving her dreams about her would be .but fantssy ends the moment reality takes place. something somewhere goes wrong why? The first step towards making our life more fruitful more perfect is to take the responsibity to our owns elf for whatevr we r today than anybody else. that is veryveryimportant the moment we stop blamingothers for whatever we r today , our journey towards perfection starts. self analysis be your own critic ask yourself what r yourstrengths. what are your weaknesses. do i think from the ther persons point? does the other person alsohave somedreams about me?
It is very important to understand that its our views our attitudes our outlooks creates the Big Difference. I tis not what happens to us is very important what we do with what happnes to us is very important. .slight change in our attitude goes a longway in making our life more fruitful.
Those woman who thinks that theydont hve anycapabilty make a list of things which they r good at, r you a good cook, good wife, goodsinger something is there which you r good at. appreciate yourself for that. there is a great potentioal within you undevelped,resources that you have not tapped yet. My niece who was just an average student suddenly started writng good articles,which she never used during her studies. now after marriage sherealises that she has good potential. this is just an example.
just anlyse what kindof thoughts you r carrying daily whther most of the time thoughts of fear disappointment or encouragnng +ve thoughts . watch for few days and write it down. and change theway you think. just for few days you start practicing no complaints day observe it, see the miraculous changes you r going to get. slowly analyse what makes you happy do it ask yourself whter your a good wife. the man comes home after office devastated, dranied of all his +ve enrgy do you nag then ,or doyou charge him with your tea and a loving warm smile. if not do it. men are not as expressionable as we r. he wants to talk about ideas, or p olitics or job . women want to speak about feelings, love emotions etcc. so we cant expect them to talk always our favourites. so dont compel. make the home a place for peace rest and restaurant for your husband to feel at ease., than making him run way from there. home is his castle where he is the king that is his feelings. nagging him over trivial issues will make him run away from the castle and look for shelter somewhere else. we cant blame them. when he feels at ease he willmake sure you are at peace. what makes you happy try todo it. accept yourself as yo are. . dont give self pity to you.rather give respect to you.lots of our todays character formation was done due to our previous experince so think deep anyprevious experince or your previous life disturbns you then remove those thoughts from you. we cannot change the wind but we can change our route. we have multiple duties we have duties of a wife, mothr, and as an individual we have duties towards the humanity.. A lady has the power to lift her family spirit or bring it down to rock bottom. write down your feeling about life, what makes you happy and what r yuour worries,. writing down means you r opening up , your oepning up means your worries and dremas r exposd so you can very well get a solution. it willhelp you to evaluate where you are exactly heading . make a list of your strengths as well as weaknesses. develop thestrengths and work on your weaknesses by setting goals, you can achieve antying by setting goals and workingon it. let it be your own behaviour, see the changeeds of yourman to you, your onestep ahead will make him put 2 steps towards you. you can be better than you have thought you were. set your personal goals as a mother, wife, andeven as a daughter in law. break them into small and work on it. oneday spent without - ve thoughts nagging is well enough to make you spend another few days. thus slowly you you r putting steps towards perfetion., a total woman,.dont forget a AWOMAN HAS A MAN IN IT. A LADY HAS A LAD IN IT. that means woman is always a part of man or man is a part of woman.. try and work it nmay not happen in one day it is a process slow but steady process for a better life,. a bright tomorrow more peaceful life and worthy living it. by giving we enrich our lives as well as others.. there is always two choices do you want to live your entire life in dispoointment, resentment, or do you want to live in peace and happiness and contentment. choice is yours. The journey from where your today and whre you want to be is abit tough but not impossible. Just remove the cloud from you and let the bright light of the sun fall on you .
SUCH A BEAUTIFUL ONE
WHO IS THE MOTHER OF MANKIND
WHO IS FRAGRANCE OF THE FLOWER OF LIFE,
WHO IS THE SPRING OF LIFE.
BUT SUFFERES LIKE ANYTHING
WHO TEACHES THE MAN THE FIRST WORD,
WHO TEACHES THE MAN FIRST STEP
WHO TEACHES HIM HOW TO LOVE
WHO TEACHES HIMHOW TO STAND OF HIS OWN
WHO IS HIS FIRST TEACHER, GUIDE, MENTOR AND WORLD
BUT WHY SHE SUFFERS WHY SHE IS PAIN ?
wHY SHE FEELS HER DREAMS ARE SMASHED?
You can define a woa\man as giver she give a lot than takes from you She born as daughter grow as somebodys asset, beze from child hood she is trAined to be lived with other person or other familys .,as if she is given to her parents to be lookkd after for few years s, till she is capable of taking responsibilty of the family the man . so shestart getting the training from the v ery childhood. though she was given good food , good education it is all to make her capable of looking after the family she is going to be. she also start weaving her dreams about her would be .but fantssy ends the moment reality takes place. something somewhere goes wrong why? The first step towards making our life more fruitful more perfect is to take the responsibity to our owns elf for whatevr we r today than anybody else. that is veryveryimportant the moment we stop blamingothers for whatever we r today , our journey towards perfection starts. self analysis be your own critic ask yourself what r yourstrengths. what are your weaknesses. do i think from the ther persons point? does the other person alsohave somedreams about me?
It is very important to understand that its our views our attitudes our outlooks creates the Big Difference. I tis not what happens to us is very important what we do with what happnes to us is very important. .slight change in our attitude goes a longway in making our life more fruitful.
Those woman who thinks that theydont hve anycapabilty make a list of things which they r good at, r you a good cook, good wife, goodsinger something is there which you r good at. appreciate yourself for that. there is a great potentioal within you undevelped,resources that you have not tapped yet. My niece who was just an average student suddenly started writng good articles,which she never used during her studies. now after marriage sherealises that she has good potential. this is just an example.
just anlyse what kindof thoughts you r carrying daily whther most of the time thoughts of fear disappointment or encouragnng +ve thoughts . watch for few days and write it down. and change theway you think. just for few days you start practicing no complaints day observe it, see the miraculous changes you r going to get. slowly analyse what makes you happy do it ask yourself whter your a good wife. the man comes home after office devastated, dranied of all his +ve enrgy do you nag then ,or doyou charge him with your tea and a loving warm smile. if not do it. men are not as expressionable as we r. he wants to talk about ideas, or p olitics or job . women want to speak about feelings, love emotions etcc. so we cant expect them to talk always our favourites. so dont compel. make the home a place for peace rest and restaurant for your husband to feel at ease., than making him run way from there. home is his castle where he is the king that is his feelings. nagging him over trivial issues will make him run away from the castle and look for shelter somewhere else. we cant blame them. when he feels at ease he willmake sure you are at peace. what makes you happy try todo it. accept yourself as yo are. . dont give self pity to you.rather give respect to you.lots of our todays character formation was done due to our previous experince so think deep anyprevious experince or your previous life disturbns you then remove those thoughts from you. we cannot change the wind but we can change our route. we have multiple duties we have duties of a wife, mothr, and as an individual we have duties towards the humanity.. A lady has the power to lift her family spirit or bring it down to rock bottom. write down your feeling about life, what makes you happy and what r yuour worries,. writing down means you r opening up , your oepning up means your worries and dremas r exposd so you can very well get a solution. it willhelp you to evaluate where you are exactly heading . make a list of your strengths as well as weaknesses. develop thestrengths and work on your weaknesses by setting goals, you can achieve antying by setting goals and workingon it. let it be your own behaviour, see the changeeds of yourman to you, your onestep ahead will make him put 2 steps towards you. you can be better than you have thought you were. set your personal goals as a mother, wife, andeven as a daughter in law. break them into small and work on it. oneday spent without - ve thoughts nagging is well enough to make you spend another few days. thus slowly you you r putting steps towards perfetion., a total woman,.dont forget a AWOMAN HAS A MAN IN IT. A LADY HAS A LAD IN IT. that means woman is always a part of man or man is a part of woman.. try and work it nmay not happen in one day it is a process slow but steady process for a better life,. a bright tomorrow more peaceful life and worthy living it. by giving we enrich our lives as well as others.. there is always two choices do you want to live your entire life in dispoointment, resentment, or do you want to live in peace and happiness and contentment. choice is yours. The journey from where your today and whre you want to be is abit tough but not impossible. Just remove the cloud from you and let the bright light of the sun fall on you .
Monday, January 5, 2009
Can money Buy everything ?
Can money buy everything.? "No" is the answer by the wise man and" yes "is the answer by the fool. You can look around can see so many people who just live to make money, they behave as if God has sent them to make money. There r people who make money by crushing others under their foot. they build a fortune by stamping on others shoulders.Money is a good thing money making is a good thing. but to make money by anymeans and too much love to money creates all the problmes. I have read in books so manysuccessful people busniessmen , actors, professionalists , spent mostof thier time making mney and were after name andfame. and ,dont read their climax or the end. It was tragic. mostof them died as bankrupt or committed suicide due disaapointments etc.etc. why? beze they were so engrossed in mmaking money they forget the value of life.whoever forgets the value of life the objective of life, the mother nature teaches them the lesson . that is the order of the nature. nobodycan escape from that./there is a benchmark for evrything , some yardstick..
We hae seen brothers killing brothers, children killing parents , wife killing husband etc etc. all for money. Do you think aftr getting the socalled money will they live in peace? No.
Have younoticed those who earn money by any illegal means,govt officials as bribe, sales tax people, the excise people,. the politicians,all curropted people, you can see them anywhere . the HUNGRY WOLF . have you noticed their children get spoilled and blow off the money they have earned by thieR HARD WORK . why ifyou get anybodys curse the money you earn will not be enjoyed by you properly.Either your children willmisuse it or you gt all the stylish diseases like Bp. Cholestrol, and sugar so tht you cannot take salt .sugar, or fat. then wwhat will you eat vegetables and leaves like the animals...
so it isveryvery important tht we make money in the right way and even spend it the rightway.
Iam not a big hearted one who makes money and spend on chahrity i may do little charity . but i never make money against my conscious. i teach my chidlren who r very small cant understand but i just saw theseeds of good thoughts so that it grow along with them. dont never evr wish others wealth.Ipray God make my children good hmnan beings first then give me so much money. Yes i want to make money. but ussing my brain and hardwork..I would perfer ggod chilren and less money than croers of rupees and bad children..
How tragic it is to read in news papers drugs have been added in pickles and icecreams to be sold in smallpackets like hot cakes,. thattoo nearby shops of schools. How could they do this just for money they kill the future generation..How muchdamage they do to theyounger generation.Is this Kaliyugam..?. cly like things radded in baby food which affects the kidneys of the babies. how could one do this.
We forget those words which i read somewhere and echoing in my ears
MONEY CAN BUY BED BUT NOT SLEEP
MONEY CAN BUY MEDICINE BUT NOT HEALTH
MONEY CAN BUY HOUSE BUTNOT A AHOME
MONEYCAN BUY LUXURIES BUT NOT HAPPINESS
MONEY CAN BUY SERVANTS BUT NOT FRIENDS
MONEY CAN BUY GOODS BUT NOT PEACE
MONEYCAN BUYSTATUS BUT NOT N OBILIY
MONEY CAN BUY POSITINS BUT NOTGREATNESS
LAST MONEYCAN BUY MAN BUT NOT G O D .
wht does it show ultimately money can buy things but your deeds and heart will get you all the noble things.. if we do good , or atleast refrain from doing ba d, we feel great inside contended inside more wealtheir than the wealthiest. What eklse we want inlife,.loove, sanctity, happiness and peace of mindr rarethings which money cannot buy, but your good deeds can buy or get you.
what i really want to express here is money is good tooomuchlvoe to it is bad. and if we ould generte money by good means thatis the greatest asset. This is a self affirmation to myself nevr fall fior money.workhard, use your brain, physical strength and your capacity to makemoney in the right way.Hope and believe God will lead me to the right path .A Big Sorry if ihave hurt someone
We hae seen brothers killing brothers, children killing parents , wife killing husband etc etc. all for money. Do you think aftr getting the socalled money will they live in peace? No.
Have younoticed those who earn money by any illegal means,govt officials as bribe, sales tax people, the excise people,. the politicians,all curropted people, you can see them anywhere . the HUNGRY WOLF . have you noticed their children get spoilled and blow off the money they have earned by thieR HARD WORK . why ifyou get anybodys curse the money you earn will not be enjoyed by you properly.Either your children willmisuse it or you gt all the stylish diseases like Bp. Cholestrol, and sugar so tht you cannot take salt .sugar, or fat. then wwhat will you eat vegetables and leaves like the animals...
so it isveryvery important tht we make money in the right way and even spend it the rightway.
Iam not a big hearted one who makes money and spend on chahrity i may do little charity . but i never make money against my conscious. i teach my chidlren who r very small cant understand but i just saw theseeds of good thoughts so that it grow along with them. dont never evr wish others wealth.Ipray God make my children good hmnan beings first then give me so much money. Yes i want to make money. but ussing my brain and hardwork..I would perfer ggod chilren and less money than croers of rupees and bad children..
How tragic it is to read in news papers drugs have been added in pickles and icecreams to be sold in smallpackets like hot cakes,. thattoo nearby shops of schools. How could they do this just for money they kill the future generation..How muchdamage they do to theyounger generation.Is this Kaliyugam..?. cly like things radded in baby food which affects the kidneys of the babies. how could one do this.
We forget those words which i read somewhere and echoing in my ears
MONEY CAN BUY BED BUT NOT SLEEP
MONEY CAN BUY MEDICINE BUT NOT HEALTH
MONEY CAN BUY HOUSE BUTNOT A AHOME
MONEYCAN BUY LUXURIES BUT NOT HAPPINESS
MONEY CAN BUY SERVANTS BUT NOT FRIENDS
MONEY CAN BUY GOODS BUT NOT PEACE
MONEYCAN BUYSTATUS BUT NOT N OBILIY
MONEY CAN BUY POSITINS BUT NOTGREATNESS
LAST MONEYCAN BUY MAN BUT NOT G O D .
wht does it show ultimately money can buy things but your deeds and heart will get you all the noble things.. if we do good , or atleast refrain from doing ba d, we feel great inside contended inside more wealtheir than the wealthiest. What eklse we want inlife,.loove, sanctity, happiness and peace of mindr rarethings which money cannot buy, but your good deeds can buy or get you.
what i really want to express here is money is good tooomuchlvoe to it is bad. and if we ould generte money by good means thatis the greatest asset. This is a self affirmation to myself nevr fall fior money.workhard, use your brain, physical strength and your capacity to makemoney in the right way.Hope and believe God will lead me to the right path .A Big Sorry if ihave hurt someone
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